I met a guy recently and we were intimate a couple times. The morning I left his place he says he wants to be like friends and do more things together than just sex. I told him that is fine. He wanted me to do the calling yet he says he really likes me. Did I F up or miss something? He sure acted like he liked the sex. What gives he doesnt call me if he wants to be friends and hang out.
2006-09-11 01:32:00 · 18 answers · asked by C S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to say this but guys can be like that. He got what he wanted and you may not hear from him again. If he's a decent guy and really meant it when he said he wanted to hang out you would be hearing from him. If you get the urge to talk to him call him once and see how he responds to you. That should tell you where you stand with him. If he blows you off chalk it up to experience. Remember, most guys will say what they think they need to say to get what they want. Next time, take it a little slower, make him wait until you see what kind of person he is.
2006-09-11 01:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like the type of guy that likes the attention of girls, so he can't be bothered to do the chasing - he wants you to. & what guy doesn't like sex? He probably doesn't want the commitment of being with you but he would like you there so he can have a quick session evry now & again. This is how guys are (most of them). You didn't F*** up @ all, he's probably just not sure what he wants from girls, i.e. a casual girl or a girlfriend.
2006-09-11 01:47:03 · answer #2 · answered by heldawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey,,,,,,It sounds to me like all he wanted out of you is a good time rolling in the hay and getting his rocks off. If he really wanted to do things with you other than sex he would have called you by now. I'd be looking elsewhere if I were you.
2006-09-11 01:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situtation with this guy i gave it up too fast and thats it all he wanted after that is to be friends and have sex no strings attached do like me forget him and move on to bigger and better things Goodluck
2006-09-11 01:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you for sex. But you can try being his friend. When he says that he likes you but wants to be friends, it seems that he wants to be friends with benefits. Which is fine if you don't mind. But that can cause major hearache in the end for both of you.
2006-09-11 01:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really wanna know then call him and listen to him with your brain not your heart , dont reply every thing that he ask keep most of them pending and make a situation to let him call you afterwards and if still you dont get the call then leave him as he has eaten a juicy pear and needs a fresh one.
2006-09-11 03:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by Precious Soul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to date you but he's not sure that is what you want so he has left it to you to do the calling and ask him out.
2006-09-11 01:34:37 · answer #7 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...Maybe he wants to make sure you're interested in him. If you call him, that shows him that you are interested. Or, he doesn't have any minutes left and is cheap, but I think it's the first one. Good luck!!
2006-09-11 01:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age old problem. Sleep with a guy, what else do they need? The quest has been conquered. Move on.
2006-09-11 01:35:04 · answer #9 · answered by HappyHello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha... Girl you should already know the answer to this. Your a flavor of the week. He got what he wanted and now he's over it.
2006-09-11 01:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋