I went on a forum site and the question was about weight and whether you should lie about weight, i said 2 pounds was probably 2 stone extra, i was only playing around, some guy trashed me to pieces, they said i was fat, even though i never told them my size, they said why was i concerned about it and i, as if i was a guilty party. I have to admit i am a stone overweight but i have brought up five kids. Their was all this young people with figures like i used ot have girls in bikini. but they were making out i was a liar and everything. Looks are just not that important to me.
This bloke trashed everything i said to pieces i have actually changed my username because of it and i felt upset. He does not know me as a person i am a kind caring person. Everyone seemed to be having a go it was awful. i have decided never to go on a forum again apart from this one. That bloke thinks hes mr perfect. All those people with their perfect bodies think they are it. I will be slim soon.
2006-09-11 01:14:20 · 19 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
You go girl dont let a pack of vultures bully you they use the internst to vent their anger and be anonymous bullies. Keep your chin up. Looks and perfection are only issues for pretentious people what really matters in life is the physical and mental health of ourselves and others the feeling of receiving and being able to give love and security is far more beautiful than being a size 8!
2006-09-11 01:27:40 · answer #1 · answered by . 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-20 16:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Should Have Trashed Him And I Bet He Has A Small...
Well I Shall Not Say Anymore He's Not Worth It.
I Am Not Fat Or Thin I Class My Self As Chubbly (My Word But It Fits.)
I Too Am Carrying A Stone Over What They Say You Should Be But I Walk Two Miles A Day, I May Add Only Because I Have To Walk To Work,
But It Keeps Me Healthy.
If You Diet, Diet For You Not For Those Stupid People, And Make It Healthy.
Good Luck.
2006-09-11 12:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hrm ... stone, as a unit of weight measure, is 14 pounds. But, from your usage of the term "bloke", I'll gather that you knew that. But, basically, one must remember that most people are rather caught up in the superficial. The older we get, the less we care for those things.
Then again, I had a friend that was exclusively into obese women ... so different strokes for different folks. But don't get yourself down on weight overmuch. Unless you're so overweight that you're endangering your own health. If you'd really like to slim down, see your doctor and work a plan. And then REALLY work that plan. And don't use five children as a crutch. If you really want to lose the weight, you can. Either by work or lapband surgery, but it can be done. I'd try the work ahead of the surgery, though.
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2016-04-25 21:47:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get a kick out of bullying others. It doesn't just happen in the playground. Don't worry about it you know you are a good person in your heart and would never be like that to someone else. Just remember those people who were being nasty to you are probably all overweight themselves, it's easy to put up a fake picture. It sounds to me you hit a raw nerve with them that's why the trashed you. Being thin is not the be all and end all of life, being healthy and happy is and don't take to heart what ignorant unfeeling idiots say.
2006-09-11 01:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what your question is.
If you're asking if its OK to lie about your size on a dating site, then I would say its up to your conscience.
Weight/looks is what people seem to define and value themselves by these days. Even on the Internet. This I find bizarre I would think it far more pertinent to be able to string a coherent sentence together as people can't see you in a forum..
I think your self esteem is quite low and has maybe taken a bit of a blow. I am quite sure that as a parent of five kids, you are far more interesting and accomplished than you realise. Be kind to yourself.
2006-09-11 01:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ice Queen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mm, I must admit if someone says they're 'curvy' etc I do tend to think it probably means generally fat! I say this because I am overweight and if choosing tick-boxes I always go for the one that sounds nicer, not to deliberately lie, but because who would say 'I'm a fat heffer' rather than 'I'm curvy, voluptuous etc'. But having said that the idea of a group ganging up on you sounds unpleasant - I'd change sites, not username! I wonder if the site is a bit 'chav like'!
2006-09-11 01:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Contrary Mary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell thats right cheeky, when people try and diss me over the internet i tell them to 4uck off, that they don't know me they have no right whatsoever to try and so **** about me, i say to them ''im a nice person, you know **** all about me you have no idea what i do for all u know i could be a dr helping people and even possibly one of your relatives or you in a few years, but no you can't think that you just see what i write and judge me by my ******* font and typing, i say. I just tell them that they have no right to judge me or say anything about me and that if they do i ain't taking it, from what some liar says to me over the net,i tell them that they don't offend me and that i'd like to see them say that to my face because half of those kinda people derent and the pick on people who don't mouth back well i do.
If you get a junk mail send them a long line of abuse back and do so until it stops, normally works first time lol.
2006-09-11 01:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sereniti 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 13:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋