Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??
2006-09-11 01:04:43 · 15 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?
2006-09-11 01:07:50 · update #1
you dont need 2 worry about it just try to relax n go back 2 how things used to be she is a few years younger than you are so she maybe a little scared and even unsure about relationships alltogether give it time OR u could just make her really jealous get another girl. You got your whole life yet dont stress out just be young and have fun
2006-09-11 01:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're plenty old enough to love and your feelings are just a valid as anyone elses. Ive been on both side of scenario in the past and to be honest when i told the guy i wanted to be friends and not to loose the friendship i meant the friendship was worth more to me and i needed him more in that way...you prob feel much more for her i think, it hurts but it will ease i promise, as im now in a similar situation of wanting someone who doesnt want me (but always wants to kiss me when we meet on weekends in town through mates) but as of sat i've decided i deserve more, as do you!!
2006-09-11 01:22:19 · answer #2 · answered by mrs timberlake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being more than friends with her won't be that much easy. She must be feeling betrayed, after all that the two of you have been through. Take her out and try to convince her that what happened was a mistake and it ever happen again. Surely she's closer than a sister to you
2006-09-11 01:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by coolray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you are still young! Why must you trouble yourself over matters like this? I say she's not even ready to think about dating/being in a serious relationship. Don't push her. If she wants you, she'll tell you. Just respect her decision, and treat her like how you treat your friends.
2006-09-11 01:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you as a friend dude . Don't muck it up with all sorts of other thoughts, she was pretty clear about things. Just leave it as friends. Tell her you like her but don't expect a relationship other then friends.
2006-09-11 01:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly hun don't go getting into a situation at 15!...she just wants to be friends i think if she liked you and wanted more then she would have said something a little more flirty in the email...go find someone who's really gonna want to be with you..and keep it light!
2006-09-11 01:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm difficuult one this, no longer least with the aid of age, its unlucky that u have had to income this elsson at certainly one of those youthful age. in spite of the fact that its a bother-free actuality that folk do get wires crossed and emotions for yet another do strengthen into stable and at circumstances to no longer our benefit. needless to say you needed extra and he or she didnt, its admirable that u ahve respected her decision and now its perfect to circulate on. Giving her area replaced into the 1st element and that u have carried out. u say that u prefer to circulate on and ur going the astonishing way approximately it, in spite of the fact that it rather is going to take time....and yeah it does injury all of us comprehend this, yet "time is a great healer" a properly hassle-free verse yet one with an element of actuality in it. As time passes u will discover ways to examine her no longer as a virtually love yet as a gr8 m8 and that love u have for her wont circulate it rather is going to stay with u yet will recent itself in a manner which will enable u strengthen into closer than ever.....surely ur doing the astonishing element provide her area enable her persist along with her very own direction and hi who is conscious what the destiny holds she might come back to you if she feels an identical love as u do. If she dont properly atleast she would manage to circulate and meet somebody interior the destiny that she would manage to be happy with yet also have a gr8 buddy in you.....stable luck :)
2016-11-07 02:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could very well be scared to take the relationship to the next level. Give her time and see what happens. If it is meant to be , it will happen.
2006-09-11 01:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She likes you as a friend, that's all i know it might be painful for you to deal with that but don't push her that can also ruin your friendship!
2006-09-11 01:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give this girl some space. let her sort her feelings out, if she wants more than friendship. she will tell you
2006-09-11 01:07:35 · answer #10 · answered by xx_british_babe_xx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋