Me and this guy broke up 4 yrs ago,she is the one with his child,she is the one he loves,and she is the one who he wants to marry-so why does she find me as a threat to the relatioship?Okay so I was his first true love,I live in the next road and have built extremely strong relationships with his mother and sister.He is hardly ever there when I do visit andeven if he is there,we dont talk to each other cause I know how insecure she is.I have never given her a reason to think that something is going on.I have tried to befriend her but she is just horrible to me.To add to that Ive recently got a job very far away from where I use to live and yet she still finds me a threat.He now made somebody else pregnant!She should have been worried bout everyone else instead of putting all her energy into me.I find this whole situation so so funny!Do you agree with me or do you feel that I am wrong?And just for the record,I have absolutely no feelings for him!He is the past and should stay there!
2006-09-11 00:55:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You and this guy broke up 4 yrs ago,she is the one with his child,she is the one he loves,and she is the one who he wants to marry-so why does she find me as a threat to the relatioship?Okay so you were his first true love you live in the next road and have built extremely strong relationships with his mother and sister.He is hardly ever there when U visit and even if he is there,U dont talk to each other cause U know how insecure she is.U have never given her a reason to think that something is going on.U have tried to befriend her but she is just horrible to U.To add to that U recently got a job very far away from where U use to live and yet she still finds U a threat.He now made somebody else pregnant!She should have been worried bout everyone else instead of putting all her energy into U.U find this whole situation so so funny!Do you agree with me or do you feel that I am wrong?And just for the record,U have absolutely no feelings for him!He is the past and should stay there!
2006-09-11 01:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont c a point in explaining u y she is insecure.if u r a sensitive person and cocerned about other's happiness then u should keep urself far away from this man and his family so that u r not the cause of anyone's distress.otherwise just dont bother.live ur life the way u want.
PS:have u ever been insecure for your guy over small issues?if u have been then she has a big enough reason to feel insecure.if not then also she might have a reason.
2006-09-11 10:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by S S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am fully agree with you. And if she think u r threat for her then let her go and shift some where else. U don't need to take blame on u, she is the culprit and she don't have faith in her husband. And u cant do anything with such people they are horrible and keep thinking rubbish. If u ask me u shd remain stayed where u r staying if they want let them shift their residence.
2006-09-11 08:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by slimshady3in 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That unfortunately is a problem with being close to your ex and his family. Maybe you and her should go and sit down and have a indepth discussion about this. It might also be that your name comes up (innocently) when they are together which might add to her regarding you as a treat.
2006-09-11 08:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt help that your in her FACE... go live in another city away frm your ex and his family, she can only move on when you have moved on.
2006-09-11 07:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably still has feelings for you, talks about you more than she likes, compares her to you, that kinda thing
2006-09-11 08:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by That Guy Drew 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋