i think hes prfect for me.hes cute,carin,handsm,honest.......& also 2 yr older than me.bt my frendz say tat hes not rite for me bt i dont think so.
r they jlous of me?shud i go with him?
he also want to marry me.
2006-09-11 00:53:26 · 20 answers · asked by shemaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally what happens is that when you love a person then you dont see the negatives in them.. You like all the positives in him/her.. Have a deep round of thinking and find out what are the qualities which is a basic for a good relationship for you.. and then also if he clears the test then only go for him.. It happened in my case also.. I feel not all persons whom we love are a good marriage material.. love and marriage are two diffrent things.. love doesnt have any condition but when it comes to marriage we have to see the compitability.. I have never proposed my girl coz I know she will not be compatible with me though I love her a lot.. I think it a tough thing but we have to be practical in life and not emotional... So do your home work and best of luck..
2006-09-11 01:00:50 · answer #1 · answered by SecretHorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly go out with him, but for God's sake don't marry him!! Sounds like you just met him, so give it lots more time before making a committment like that. Listen to your friends, too. They can see him without bias, whereas you are just seeing a potential husband and your vision is clouded by the fact that he finds you attractive and wants to marry you. Also, you never said that you loved him. That's a very important factor in deciding to marry, you know. Take it slow and enjoy life as a single woman.
2006-09-11 01:01:22 · answer #2 · answered by rosecitylady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trie to stick it out for another 2 years. That's the nice thing about being engaged if things don't work out you can still give him the ring back! Marriage is for life! I also think your a bit to young! You should ask yourself were do you see yourself in a couple of years! You have your hole life in front of you and only you could make your life worth something!
Good Luck
2006-09-11 01:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you feel that you are right for each other then so be it. However make very sure before you decide to get married.Have you been dating first at least.
2006-09-11 01:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care what anyone else thinks about him, it is what you think that matters. If you feel like it is the right thing to do, then do it, if not try moving in together first and see if it is real.
2006-09-11 00:56:33 · answer #5 · answered by MICHIGAN PI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer - it's in your heart. Forget about your friends, this life is yours, not their. You said he wants to marry you, but didn't say what you want. Want too? Need him? Love him? Then follow him. Good luck
2006-09-11 00:58:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must ask yourself what it is about him that your friends feel they need to warn you about. They may see something that you aren't allowing yourself to.
Whatever you do don't jump into anything. Take your time and don't let him rush you. Listen to your head as well as your heart. Good luck.
2006-09-11 00:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda young for marrage
what are you both going to do for careers? you still need to get your wild hairs out and play a bit before marrage and finish maturing and growing up
2006-09-11 01:01:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to learn how to spell first. He should propose getting you into a remedial spelling course.
2006-09-11 01:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 21 years old he should still be student not ready to set up a family.
2006-09-11 00:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by pyj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋