Further to my last post "cheating men" the guy in question said that we will only ever be friends. So basically hes saying he will never finish with his girlfriend but if he did he wouldnt start a relationship with me? He says im hard work but that cant be the only reason, im good enough for a shag!
2006-09-11 00:12:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would he say that?
2006-09-11 00:13:16 · update #1
Jacky - i would hardly call 3 hours drive convenient. Hes already said if i just want to be friends hed respect that. I just cant end things
2006-09-11 00:35:23 · update #2
wow.... he just wants to use your body
i mean, if you said to me, wanna do it.. no strings... i would to
theres nothing wrong with girls or guys behaving this way, emotions are overvalued
2006-09-11 00:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by yeah well 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o, boy. u again. forget finding excuses for him. if a man loves u u don't need to find any excuses for his behavior - he will try to make u happy and do everything for u. HE IS NOT IN LOVE WITH U.even if u want to believe it so much. and tell u the truth u re not that great in bed either - u re just convenient for him. that's it. and he will tell anything to keep it that way. he might even say he loves u. but what normal woman will believe in only empty words?
2006-09-11 00:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the expression "having your cake and eating it" comes to mind. Abb- hes using you. Hes not even lying about the fact of what hes doing. You are an unpaid prostitute to this man. Get some respect for you and your body and ditch the looser.
2006-09-11 01:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes all we want to do is bang you! We don't want a relationship. If he says you're hard work it just means that you're fun to f.uck but he'd have to invest to much in the relationship.
I think there's a book out in regards to this
He's just not into you!
2006-09-11 00:52:10 · answer #4 · answered by Redeft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
abby, he playing games. do u know there are billions of humans on planet earth. u got (conservatively speaking) 200,00 guys that suit u or can treat u like a princess. so, move on. u r not oblige to hang in limbo waiting for him. 2 can play the same game.
2006-09-11 00:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thinks that all you are good for IS a shag...
is there anything wrong with that??? or do you want him as a bf???
2006-09-11 00:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad but maybe true
he might only like you enuff for sex sweets :s
2006-09-11 00:24:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called a booty call lol
2006-09-11 02:02:18 · answer #8 · answered by bambii_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he wanted to...
2006-09-11 00:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋