i am in love with a girl and both of our parents have acepted for our love . my parents have gone through the horoscope of my girl and found that she has CHEV VAI DOSHAM (influnce of mars in the 7th house in her horoscope). they say that i might die if i marry the girl who has a chev vai dosham as i dont have a chev vai dosham in my horoscope. please answer....?
2006-09-11 00:07:21 · 18 answers · asked by Alen 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
hey, first of all, do you believe in God the Father, God the Son and God the Holy Spirit? ...if not, why get married... Marriage is from God, not man... secondly, horoscopes are from man...based on ancient greek mythology...the stars, according to scientists burned out thousand of years ago...so, in other words, atrologers based their 'theory' on things that don't exist...and if it doesn't exist, what's the problem...? People tend to "box" God and limit Him, but He is limitless...sure people might be similar, but seriously, do you really think that God made two individuals and when they found their soul mates would allow the one to just die because he doesn't have chev vai dosham...why limit God to the only planets we know of...and if there are a thousand more planets...so what...God is the Alfa and Omega...He declares the route of the winds and the formation of the clouds...surely nothing will pass through without Him knowing! If you love the girl, marry her...all the prophecies in the Bible have come to pass so far and the rest will be fulfilled in their due time...that's a fact...so if you don't marry due to fear...you might lose the love of your life...just because of some horoscope based on some manmade theory...pretty sad if you ask me! We are eternal beings, we are already in eternity, death is not permanent, only the final step towards eternity! ...if you want to follow the advice of man/astrologers, read the book of Daniel in the Holy Bible, and see of what use they were to the king...they became lion food! ...and the king didn't believe in God...
live life from the heart, not a chart!
2006-09-11 01:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by someone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the science has discovered the 10th planet, and the definition of Pluto as a Planet is under debate, the astrology based on the 9 planet system is becomomg redundant. To add with this the planetory positions are also changing as the days go by and the entire solar system is on its move and not static.
If you are so much sentimental and astrologic, you should not have first of all fell in love at all. Having began the story of love, showing chevai dosham as a reason for not marrying the girl is an execuse to try one more dame in your life. I believe. Sorry for the language, but it looks like so for me.
In addition, I remember to have read a news item about 10 years back about a Doctor by name Purushottam, who researched upon the horoscopes of the people of Chevai Dosham and found 95 % of the people with Chevai Dosham are with Negative RH factor blood group. When a male with RH+ makes a female with RH- perganent, the baby can be either with RH+ or with RH-. In case if the baby is with RH- nothing will be abnormal. But if in case the baby is with RH+ (as the father is RH+) and the mother is RH-, mother's milk may trouble the child. But still there are alternative methods of feeding the child these days. Hence, it is astrologically said that A Chevai Dosham is preferable for a chevaidosham spouse, so that the RH factor of both the partner is (-) and hence the child can not have positive RH factor. Hence, simple go ahead, as in no way, it is going affect your longivity.
Thirdly the pain of not marrying the girl of your choice will be painful throughout your life if fail to marry her showing this Chevai Dosham as reason. Don't worry, you won't die.
2006-09-11 00:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by chappani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares if she has CHEV VAI DOSHAM. do not belieave everthing you read, because you will be alone for the rest of your live, Hello everybody dies, the question is when. Just marry the Lady if you truly love her, If you have sex with her and Nut and die, I guess you would be coming and going at the same time.
2006-09-11 00:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by dmncprkr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without commenting on what others have said about your Kuja Dosham, I would like to say that it is one of the important points to be considered while considering a matrimonial proposal between two eligible persons. Where is the horoscope of the other person, and why worry beforehand unnecessarily ? When the need arises, you may contact a proper person for advice in the specific matter.
2016-03-27 06:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should consult a good astrologer with both of your horoscopes; chevva dosham itself is not bad as long as it matches your horoscope and the planets are in position; I am not sure whether there are any pariharams but you can check http://www.templetrips.com/content/view/15/28/ for any pariharams that may be available
good luck
2006-09-11 17:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by TheGuru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please,please,for your own sake,believe me:
There is no bigger bullshit,no bigger crap,no bigger nonsense
than horoscope!
There are thousands of magazins all over the world,that publish
horoscopes week by week.And in every paper is written the SAME ???
No,sir!!!
So forget about all that brainless stupid stuff concerning horoscope.
If you and your girl have the same emotions and feelings,if you
share several interests,if both parents are fine with,(not a MUST
but a PLUS),so go for it .
And if it might not work,there is no lifetime gurantee at anything,
there´ll be 1000 reasons,but NOT anything with horoscope.
Good luck!!!
2006-09-11 00:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by Fritz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All this doesnt matter , if theres love .. !
Love is all that matters !!
Asking such a question itself means that you are so unsure , come on , just go for it ..
CHEV VAI DOSHAM --------------- is this more greater than your love?
2006-09-11 00:12:23 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dosham does not do any thing, when you are really in love.with her. As per your words parents of both accepted the proposal.
So don't prolong it yaar . . .! I think you have some other plan by avoiding this intentionally or your parents. Come on let you think it practically.
2006-09-11 00:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by prasadrao y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I tell honestly nobody knows about the future but God
so if you love her seriously just go a head DO NOT hesitate
my dear all HOROSCOPE people are just a lies and they don't have any scientific rule for there prediction
even if they prediction happens it will absolutely be due to chance it's not true its fake if you are believer and trust your GOD go a head and don't mind about what people say
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2006-09-11 00:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by ggeleceng1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No disrespect to your faith, but in the Holy Bible one is not to consult, astrologers, witches (endor) or sorcerers, for one is putting their very faith and future to the prince of darkness.
A witch or astrologer or psychic does not know your future. They just want your $$$ and for you to keep coming back and forth.
Pray to God for a good wife, because God doesn't charge you a dime. He will choose a wife for you that will bring you love and happiness.
2006-09-11 07:20:58 · answer #10 · answered by Born Valentine's Day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋