if your boyfriend of two years was trying to get you to bring another woman into our bed? I am bisexual, and by no means would this be my first time with a woman, but I can't seem to make him understand that he is the only person I want to be with emotionally and sexually. Any (serious) advice will be appreciated. And, yes, I've attempted to just straight out tell him.
2006-09-10 23:52:29 · 8 answers · asked by DrkCrwlr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could also tell him that if he keeps mentioning it then you dont want him in your bed either. You could also let him know that if at any time you wanted a threesome you will let him know now that you know his feelings on this matter.
2006-09-10 23:57:25 · answer #1 · answered by Emma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't understand how you feel, then he doesn't sound very intelligent, does he? Now you don't want to be with someone who is stupid, do you? It seems YOU are not enough for this guy, and sooner or later, he will fulfill his fantasy with or WITHOUT you. Make it clear to him one last time how you feel, and if he persists, then leave him. I'm sure there are plenty of men out there who will appreciate you and love ONLY YOU!
2006-09-11 00:06:01 · answer #2 · answered by petals 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to, although it sounds like you already have, make it clear that it is not something you are interested in. That being said, and it also being clear that he did listen, if he still persists, you need to be open to the idea that this isn't for you, but rather something he wants. whether or not that is acceptable to your feelings, I can't assume, but if you've made it clear that its not a desirable thing for you, and he still persists with the idea, then its safe to say he just hasn't flat out said, this is what I want.
2006-09-10 23:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by jdrisch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probably wanting this for himself and maybe he believes due to your past history that you are missing or desiring something. either way don t get angry. Talk to him and let him know that it was your past and not what you want in your future with him.
Speak from the heart and let him know how you feel about him and it hurts you that he wants another women for what ever reason.
2006-09-11 00:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got your answer in your question itself - Tell him straightforwardly it wouldnt work , coz it genuinely wouldnt! Its better knowing what you can and cant do with reference to such serious matters like Love ! Dont cheat yourself , in turn you'd b cheatin on him ! Go on and speak up for yourself
2006-09-10 23:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful Snowwhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell him about it and make him understand. If he still doesn't dump him.
2006-09-10 23:55:35 · answer #6 · answered by mk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats all you can do tell him upfront and if he is adamant, dump him, what choice do you have ?
2006-09-10 23:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by bash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.......his not contented with you...his so stupid,he doesnt know that you've been hurt.......
2006-09-10 23:56:22 · answer #8 · answered by gwyn_41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋