I was seeing this guy and he was calling me sometimes 2 times aday, and one day he stopped and when I finally got a hold of him he said he had chosen adifferent path and not to take it personally, So why didnt he tell me that sooner adn he also did this after I saidd I loved him. I havent heard from him in weeks but lately I have been having a feeling he is going to contact me again I s this possible?
2006-09-10 23:50:45 · 14 answers · asked by theone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah it's possible, but unlikely. I'm sure he did like you, but wasn't ready for commitment. You told him that you loved him and that probably scared him. That's probably why he stopped calling you. Be careful about using the "L" word too soon or with the wrong person. You should move on and don't take it personally. There will be someone better.
2006-09-11 00:05:00 · answer #1 · answered by txsunflower81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, come on, grow up girl. the guy doesn't have the balls to tell you straight in your face that he has chosen another path., is he scared of the word i love you? , don't put all your hopes in him girl, life is too short not to be enjoyed. go out, meet new people, make new friends., maybe that guy was just a part of a season in your life, not the reason for you and him to be together. GODSPEED. GIRL!
2006-09-10 23:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I'm tallking of experience, the minute you mention the L word they run. He may come back, but If I were you just let it ride. Mine came back and said the love thing scared him. he just didnt have the balls to tell me...but realised afterwards that if he does not play his cards right, he would lose me. I became very hard to get and he now eats out my hand. No mention of love but certainly more attentive and really opens up to me about his feelings
2006-09-10 23:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by dusty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told a long time ago that you can not say the L word. They have to say it first. I had forgotten but I remembered about it when my husband proposed. HE said the word first.
Something to think about.
2006-09-11 00:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by Valeria 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible, when he does contact you, tell him you have taken a different path and will soon be joining the people on the space station and there isn't enough room for him on your lifes path.
2006-09-10 23:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by notyours 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he shopping around, keeping his options open, doesn't want commitment but also playing the "hard to get"& "withdrawal symptom" game. if he is not sure what he wants or what he is missing.
leave it behind & free yrself to go somewhere else, u r not oblige to be hanging in limbo. peace, lady
2006-09-11 00:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wake-up lady your goin to look like a looser if you dont move on there are lots of honest single men around, that guy is just using you as a joke
2006-09-11 00:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you won't hear from him again unless he's just looking for some lovin', move on and never look back.
2006-09-10 23:54:03 · answer #8 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on. men can sometimes just get the itch to try, though not necessarily be sincere about it all.
2006-09-10 23:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by sunntonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible, especially if he thinks he can get sex out of the deal... :D
best to just move on...
2006-09-10 23:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋