I've been going out with this girl for around a month. She is a bit shy, but when we're together in a movie theatre, she seems a bit more flirty, then when we're out in public. I'm going out with her this weekend to watch a movie and I was gonna kiss her, but I was scared of rejection.
How do I know if she's ready to be kissed? Do I ask her for a kiss? Or just do it? Help me out here because I've never kissed a girl, and she has never kissed a guy either.
Here is a picture of me:
http://myspace-348.vo.llnwd.net/00651/84/33/651783348_l.jpg
An idea I had was texting her while we're sitting next to eachother in the movies and texting her, "Can I ask you something?" and she will reply with, "yes" and I'll text her, "Can I kiss you?"
Good idea? or lame? I'm pretty shy... and she's shy herself.. but I feel like we've been going out a month and I think it'll help us progress in our relationship.
2006-09-10 23:37:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when your sitting close by her,in the theatre or car or anyplace, lean in just a little bit & lookher inthe eye... if she doesnt pull away then she wants you to kiss her - if she stands back a little, crosses her arms or turns her head another way..she doesnt want to be kissed at this time.
It may be she wants to be kissed, but not there. so try again somewhere else, if she rejects you twice she's not ready
be gentle and just smile either way
2006-09-10 23:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think your idea is pretty good - - asking her, that is, but it might be nicer to ask her directly, rather than sending her an SMS! Be cool and sensitive about it when you do, and pick the right time (the movies might be ok, but so is when you're talking a walk together in the evening, but keep with your observations).
I'm a big fan of asking (nicely!) for something, as well as being asked. Doing that makes things pretty clear so everybody knows what's going on.
Good idea. Try it! She might have been wondering when you'd ask!
2006-09-10 23:46:12 · answer #2 · answered by mz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the texting thing is pretty sweet. being a shy person myself, i like to do things in private or with someone whom i really trust. so, i think her being flirty in private gives you the authority to somehow be affectionate with her. i think she's been wanting to kiss you but is just too shy to make the first move because of a lot of reasons.... so go ahead and be a man and do it.
good luck.
2006-09-10 23:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by purplenplums 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't be scared. If you can't tell from her body language if she wants to be kissed or not, go ahead and ask her. It can actually be kinda romantic and sweet, when a guy asks the girl for permission to kiss her the first time. (Speaking from experience)
2006-09-10 23:52:34 · answer #4 · answered by txsunflower81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know....u dont need to have plan or any strategy in kissing a girl....it really happens without knowing, specially if you both love each other so much...its the feeling pushes both of you to do that certain act....
2006-09-10 23:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by Shelly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get older you both might wish you'd never kissed anyone but the person you wanna marry--as in eeww someone else's lips touched yours already!!!
2006-09-10 23:43:11 · answer #6 · answered by isis 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i wouldnt txt her thats kinda dorky. if i was you id just kiss her it will come naturally so dont wory if you are shy and dont know wha to do it will just come to you
2006-09-11 00:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by sensual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look under her left ear lobe there is a L.E.D light there if its green it means all systems are go all lights are green and you may commence your approach
2006-09-11 00:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? i think if you have been going out for amonth and she acts heaps flirtatious then she wants to be kissed! go for it!
2006-09-10 23:45:16 · answer #9 · answered by qwerty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think she won't reject you. If she does, then try some other time but don't be too agressive. Do it so gently.
2006-09-10 23:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by Gem 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋