i just realised i dont love him, i dnt know actually, im really confused now. I feel like breaking up with him,I feel like we’re just friends. He cheated on me once and I gave him a chance, now I dnt trust him as much as I used to. Should I just go on with the relationship, that means giving him another chance? Or just break?
2006-09-10 23:34:01 · 29 answers · asked by mee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep, leave hin
2006-09-10 23:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps u might have stated him about the relationship u r keeping with him.And still he is not getting u means that he is very crazy behind u.U said he has cheated u and still u r keeping relation means that u r very kind.
If u r correct then u r at right way.If he really loves u or your real friend then he will always believe in your happiness being as a friend or lover.He wont disturb u more and will try to be in less contact with u even though he is around u.If not or it is just attraction he may cheat u again.
Rather than suddenly breaking relation with him,u,u try to avoid him or be in less contact with him.
Its your life and u r to experience everything and learn how best u can live on this world.
Atlast "Trust is the thing which works behind anyrelation hsip, If there is no Trust ,No relationship"
2006-09-11 07:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by Amighty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have a hard time letting go of the mistakes that other make. By him cheating on you he has committed one of the biggest mistake in a healthy relationship. First look and see why did he cheat? Do You think he will do it again?
If you like the answers that you come up with then from the above 2 questions then as yourself one more question if you cheated on him would you want him to forgive you for your mistake.
2006-09-11 07:25:37 · answer #3 · answered by adam620blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the trust between you are broken it will be a good idea to split up - even if it is only for a while. Once you get more involved and thinking of taking you relationship further- marriage- trust is going to be of vital importance.
2006-09-11 06:39:28 · answer #4 · answered by robsnor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him right now. You cant trust him anymore. The guy once cheat on you will do cheat in future too. so Dont worry and find new one.
2006-09-11 06:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by pesific_boy_curious_2_no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So he cheated on you, you don't trust him and you don't love him. So why should you be with him??? There are plenty of men out there and a lot of interesting things to do at your free time but carrying on a relationship you're not so sure about anymore...Life is too short you know...
2006-09-11 06:38:36 · answer #6 · answered by Kicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are wondering... if you are not sure of your feelings, I think it's better to leave him. After a while of each on your own, if you are still attracted to each other, you may start anew, although it's rare that it works out that way. Neither choice is final; go with your heart - if you're not sure, get some distance.
2006-09-11 06:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who can answer that question coz only you know what is in your heart,but i dont see a relationship if there is no trust.
2006-09-11 06:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by zoya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he cheated is not the question or point. The fact is
you "think" that you don't love him anymore, that should tell you something, right?
2006-09-11 06:42:20 · answer #9 · answered by Steve R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheaters don't deserve second chances to cheat. Move on.
2006-09-11 06:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by live2ride 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to break up with him....he is a cheater...cheaters dont deserve second chance....As you know he cheated once, this means that he will do it again...
2006-09-11 06:41:27 · answer #11 · answered by Chicken Little 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋