here's the situation. im in a relationship and i love my girlfriend, i think. but i think her best friend's trying to hook up with me. at first it didnt seem serious since i knew her before i knew my girlfriend. they seem like they're falling out because of me. what should i do?
2006-09-10 22:35:54 · 25 answers · asked by joyride- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, I suggest you tell your lover what her mate is up to. If you are honest & up front with her now, it means you will know that you are doing the right thing. Do not try to lie about anything to either of them, always a bad move. Also, don't even think about trying threesome, they always lead to bad feeling on someone's part, at least in the hetro world!
Good Luck!
2006-09-10 22:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by fruitbat7711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The three of you should sit down together and talk the whole thing out so you all know what is going on. You would not want to be the cause of a friendship that went wrong and you 3 need to know where you stand and maybe you will be able to come to an understanding and no ones friendship will have to be terminated. Honesty is the best way to go.
2006-09-11 05:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by Small Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to both of them. You need to reassure your girlfriend that you only want her and that there's no reason to be jealous. And you need to let the other friend know that you are not interested because you love your girlfriend and besides that, it's a shame for them to end their friendship over something like this. If it's possible you could talk to them together and show your girlfriend support in front of her friend. You might want to ask your girlfriend before you talk to her friend, just so she doesn't think it's an excuse to talk to her.
2006-09-11 05:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by shosha_tiqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her best friend should't be trying to get with you. Stick with your girlfriend. I'm telling you girls can be bitter.
However--interesting story
My sister in law and her girlfriend were living together when my sis moved in. She started messing with the girlfriend but she only had eyes for my sister in law. Eventually the old girlfriend got kicked out and my sister and now my sister in law have been together for 4 yrs now. I'm very happy to see them together because those two had been un happy for some time.
Note** i live in a state where gay marriage is illegal but I don't care. Sis in law is family to me!!!! And I will be best "man" in their wedding when they can get married. I can't wait. I've already been maid of honor several times.
Just talk to your girlfriend communication helps ANY relationship
2006-09-11 05:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by johnsmom326 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love your girl you should tell her friend to step,
cause love is hard to find and most likely it would be just a fling with alot of extra drama!
2006-09-11 05:39:37 · answer #5 · answered by free_style_forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love your girlfriend do not hook up with the friend bad very bad
2006-09-11 05:38:38 · answer #6 · answered by dee d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like its love "les." triangle.
Anyways dont care about 3rd person as long as she doesn't try to hook up with ur gf.
2006-09-11 05:39:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think you love your girlfriend. Make up your mind or you'll lose her. If you love her let her know, behonest with her, don't play around with her emotions.
2006-09-11 05:40:16 · answer #8 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, stay with your girlfriend and reassure her that you'll never leave her for the other girl.
2006-09-11 05:37:41 · answer #9 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite them both over for dinner and have some drinks and talk it out like grown women and if not then tell your girl who, you would like to be with just to reassure her
2006-09-11 05:41:21 · answer #10 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋