i am a girl
2006-09-10 22:21:56 · 25 answers · asked by trideep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait for your husband. If you don't, you'll carry emotional baggage into your marriage and that makes you not as good of a lover. Also, you rob your husband of the prize gift of your purity and that makes you not as good of a lover.
2006-09-10 22:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by firerookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as some parents-to-be think that they will "prepare themselves" to be a good parent, the fact is no matter how you prepare (reading, studying, etc.) nothing will prepare you as much as just going through the experience and learning from your mistakes.
But, if you are a girl, you shouldn't be concerned with being a good lover. Sex is not intended for boys and girls, it is only intended for men and women in committed, long-term relationships.
If you want something to worry about, worry about getting pregnant or contracting STDs.
2006-09-11 05:27:56 · answer #2 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, you don't need to "prepare". It's a very natural act, and skill comes with experience, is flavored by your likes/dislikes.....and may change with each person your with. The best advice I can give you is know your own body and what you like. I would also tell you to be confident and ask for what you need.....but unfortunately that type of confidence often comes with age. The best lovers are usually those who are also sensual. Enjoy the experience, the feelings, and intimacy. Don't focus on your "performance".....allow yourself to get lost in the experience.
2006-09-11 05:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself first. Know how you want to be treated by a man and don't settle for anything less. Be honest to yourself of what you want in a relationship. Respect yourself. These thing will perpare you to be a good lover.
2006-09-11 05:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are but you don't need to be worried about this kind of thing. When you find a guy that you love and are with for a long time then everything will come naturally.
2006-09-11 05:23:51 · answer #5 · answered by shosha_tiqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will come natural if you are in love. If you're not the best lover in the world your mate won't care to know the difference, if he loves you.
2006-09-11 05:29:55 · answer #6 · answered by frank s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First know what is love,
people mix up love with lust, selfishness, fear, and so many other feelings, so know what is love , true love, than we will go to the next step.
As for me i had friends from all over, have a loving mother, father, wife, son, and daughter, but JESUS ' s love was the greatest, for HE gave HIS life, HIS blood, and everything, so HIS love is the only example i have for you.
2006-09-11 05:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can read books that give examples. But most of the time it comes naturally, and is some thing you get better at with time.
2006-09-11 05:24:31 · answer #8 · answered by Kali_girl825 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you learn to listen, laugh (at yourself and at difficult situations), forgive and some times forget and even let go, you would be fantastic lover!
And...learn to love yourself for what you are..and your self confidence would be loved naturally...
2006-09-11 05:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet a nice guy, fall in love with him and let go of prejudices. The rest will come naturally. Oh, and don't panic if something goes wrong, just laugh it up and get by it.
2006-09-11 05:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by ioa_3000 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋