had slept with my bf,he wants me to do more than just kissing i do not know what to do i have no experience , i'm 21 years old , how can i learn ?, i love him .
2006-09-10 22:09:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How come idea of sex ever come in your love.Don't you feel the warmth of love without feeling the heat of skin?
So,now b on urself and do whatever u see as OK
2006-09-10 22:14:17 · answer #1 · answered by farru 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide, if you're ready to go to that level of intimacy with your bf. Do it only if your ready to, not because you feel you have to. If you do decide to do it, take it at your own pace and keep the communication lines open with your bf. Don't worry about having no experience. You'll learn as you go.
2006-09-11 05:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by txsunflower81 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're 21 I am the King of Siam.
Search the Internet like other kids do.
2006-09-11 05:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u wanna learn all that stuff there a many porn websites to choose from.just give urself to ur bf and let him to the job.hey rememger theres a first time for everything.
2006-09-11 05:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth that you don't have experience. Be open with him. If he really loves you, he will teach you. Just tell him be gentle or take it slow. Both of you will develop on it.
Respect and Communicate!
2006-09-11 05:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by rhanz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My first experience in that department was 23 yrs old. I was lucky, the lady was recently divorced, I was a virgin, she showed me what she wanted we took our time, it was great. Take it slow. enjoy !
2006-09-11 05:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by lonesomebill 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love and respect each other there is nothing to worry about.Just give yourself all the time you need in order for you to relax and let it come naturally to you.Do not force yourself.
2006-09-11 05:13:44 · answer #7 · answered by ducky 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jump in and have some fun, if he loves you back he will take it slow and you can learn by doing it.
2006-09-11 05:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by road_dawg_style 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can learn w/ him by asking him what he wants and likes. You two can also review instructional videos together, (which can be purchased on line).
2006-09-11 05:14:19 · answer #9 · answered by mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to be patient and take your time. There shouldn't be a rush. Enjoy the process of discovery and don't let it stress you out!
2006-09-11 05:14:12 · answer #10 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋