I think I love this guy, but I want to tell him as soon as possible. How should I tell him?
2006-09-10 22:08:46 · 16 answers · asked by Vshak 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And I'm positive the guy won't tell me he loves me first. The situation is complicated.
2006-09-10 22:11:53 · update #1
you dont have to tell him,.....he will surely disrespect you./...just do it in a way to catch his attention and if he loves u...he will surely tell u first....GOODLUCK!!!!!
2006-09-10 22:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by TO BE CONTINUED.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you go down the love route consider a few things.... Do you know this guy well enough to have those feelings for him? Is it really love or could it be lust? I would suggest spending time alone with him and investing time and energy into getting to know him. Love is an emotion and a word that we tend to toss around lightly. I'm not saying you don't really love him... I'm just encouraging you to slow down and enjoy getting to know him. There isn't something magic that happens just because you confess your feelings. The important thing isn't to tell someone you love them, it's to show them how you feel.
2006-09-11 05:12:15 · answer #2 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Sam
Have you considered the "... a girl like me?" routine? First all, you should think if he's comfy being around and talking to you. It's the key to a higher success rate in the long run.
After dat, you don't have to outright declare your love for me, kinda makes it difficult for him to back out (if he wants to) right? So just play the what if game. Truth or dare, simple conversation, whichever way you approach it, the key is about getting a feel about how he feels about girls with your character(istics).
Hope this helps. Go get him! : )
2006-09-11 05:34:12 · answer #3 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, do you think he loves you? If not, you may scare the hell outta him!! If you think you have a special relationship just begin with telling him you have deep feelings for him..if he agrees that he does too..then go ahead, spill the beans, tell him it's Love..yes..Love
2006-09-11 05:16:29 · answer #4 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont think you love someone you tell him you love him when you know for sure. sounds like you are in lust or in love with being in love or want to love but not there yet leave that feeling alone until it is truly in your heart and you know that you will give your life for this person you would be willing to sacrifice if you had to take care of this man. you would stick through this man through sickness and health rich or poor. not that i am saying married i am saying love. love is loveing without boundaries, without question without wondering if it is what it is you will know so i would just keep that to myself. he doesnt want to say anything cause he isnt. and when he gets there he will know it is not one that you toss in the air
2006-09-11 05:16:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of times, the "L" word scares guys off. Tell him something like, "I think I'm falling for you" or "I'm starting to have feelings for you". Neither is commiting to loving him, and they don't put as much pressure on him. Just don't make the mistake a friend of mine did: she said, "I love u" first, he said, "Thanks". They're married now, though.
2006-09-11 05:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its better if he is the one telling you that he loves you than you. Tell him first that you like him because he's so nice and blah blah .... then if he responds then maybe he will realize that you want something else or more than friends to him.
2006-09-11 05:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by babytol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just teLL him what u reaLLy feeL about him. i think u shouLd make a romantic situation,, go for a LittLe waLk after a date in the beach or park,, maybe star gazing.. =]
2006-09-11 05:15:31 · answer #8 · answered by mariana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long u known him and what your relationship is.
Also your age.
As an adult, show him first (not sex) by treating him good and being honest and supportive, then he will probably say it first if you havent.
As a kid, dont worry about it. Worry about your grades and your future as an adult.
2006-09-11 05:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you THINK you love him does not mean you do.
if your not sure you love him,then u should not tell him.
if you do tell him and he feels the same way to and you hook up bla bla bla,you might not have feelings for him the next day.
thats my advice but it s all up to you.you should do what you feel is right.
goodluck
2006-09-11 05:18:21 · answer #10 · answered by melley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please my dear dont delay this!! because it is a personal experience i delayed in telling him and he left the city and i can never tell him .if u love someone express it .go !get him make him a call and him to meet u .u tell about this to him today itself otherwise u will loose your love.understand.
2006-09-11 05:12:35 · answer #11 · answered by gaya3 s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋