hi i need help if any one good at relastionship plz talk to me i just say my gf i guess now my xgf and we just had sex for the last time!! weird but i love her and she loves me too we both cryed saying we love each other but some guy call her cell and there doing somthing tomooroew we been going out 5 years it hurt so much i need help pleaze!! how do i deal with this i go to skool in like 10 hours and shes going to be there wtf do i do plz some one help me i need bad help.. its so hard to move on.. plz any one i need help someone talk to me plz!@!!
2006-09-10 22:03:07 · 21 answers · asked by soo_sick_of_lovesongs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Waite a minute, it doesn't makes sense she loves you but she's with someone else? you better check yourself. you may be in love wit her but if she is with/ or interested with someone else she certainly not in love with you. as for the pain. Nothing absolutely nothing. having someone else as a friend or more may help numb it. be with people you care about helps and staying busy so that your mind does not wonder of thinking of her. but time will heal all wounds. but as always when you notice it, time moves very slow.
2006-09-10 22:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Orselo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all calm down hun!! I hate the way that what you are going through feels but it is part of life and growing as a person. If she loved u then why the other guy?
I think that if u act as if she is not there it will bother her but u have to make your own decisions five years is a long time but there are other fish in the sea. My heart goes out to you and good luck
2006-09-10 22:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by ru2tipsy2c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, my, please do not feel you are alone! The very best thing you can do, is put a smile on your face, even if it's a fake one. Does not seem to bother her to dump you, and go for another. So therefore, you gotta play the game!! Begin looking around for another g/f. There are many young ladies who would love to have a devoted b/f like you have been!! Life is full of letdown's sweetie, but if this gal cares about you, she will see that you are not going to sit around and wait for her, and will come crawling back!!! So get out there, dear, play the game, and hope if she's the one for you, she will realize it before it's too late!! You WILL find dates, trust me!! Best of luck!!
2006-09-10 22:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the good thing is you are young and you wil get over it and have more lovers, the bad thing is you have to get over this now and the process of healing and hurting is just that a process and you have to take it one day at a time. the first day will be the hardest then believe it or not it gets easier. maybe one day you guys will be friends and be able to talk, but i believe that you should pray for strenghth and try and focus on your school anything that can get your mind off of her cause you cant change what has happened or what is going on only control yourself
2006-09-10 22:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard dou but u need to move on,cos if u dont,u will keep getting hurt all the time and their is nothin the 2 of you can do about it.cut off the contacts,trust me its the best way to move on,get a nw girl even dou u might not really love her but at least have somebody u relate with,sexually and emotionally.dont even think of going back cos things will never i repeat never be the same again.its sad but thats the ash realities of life we have to live with.listen to emon and maybe u will feel better
2006-09-10 22:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by fluidt7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro I know its hard. If the relationship is really over then you gotta come to terms with it. The best way to do that is not to alllow thye negative thoughts to mess up your head. INstead of thinking about how much your hurting now you gotta think about it from a position of strength. If she doesn't want to be with you then shes a fool and you dont need to waste your time with her. Believe me when she sees your attitude and how your hardly broken up about the situation, she'll be in for a shock, and start to really question the wisdom of breaking up. Then she'll be coming back to you and you'll be in position to either take her back if you choose or move on. Remember, in this life the way you think of yourself is the way others think about you.
2006-09-10 22:13:54 · answer #6 · answered by david k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so which you like one yet another...ok, yet what else? Is there no SPARK between you? Are you a needy individual? dedication issues stem from insecurities, and the reality the you have been drunk and asking all varieties of ridiculous questions skill which you have some holes on your boundary that ought to be fixed. there's a link decrease than that i am going that might actually assist you. attempt it study it, it rather is going to help you win your gf back...
2016-11-07 02:15:14 · answer #7 · answered by saturnio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on... it's hard at first. If she really loves you she won't go out with this other guy and hurt your feelings. Look, you already have offers from some of the posters.
2006-09-10 22:26:53 · answer #8 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey...
I have a piece of advice....
What ever be the situation please dont get yourself ruined.....
"...and shes going to be there wtf do i do plz some one help me i need bad help.. its so hard to move on.. plz any one i need help someone talk to me plz!@!!......" -> this sounds you are above the danger level.
You need to learn to get that fixed first! Life is not all about broken relationships! Its about a journey.... with your family...your friends!
Its also a process...... got to make your career as well!
If nothing helps think about your parents!! They are the selfless creatures who created you... LOVE them...... they will take you out of this situation.
I HOPE YOU MEET YOUR GIRL..... but more importantly .. I HOPE YOU MEET YOUR SOUL AND LIFE !!!
2006-09-12 12:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by Baski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it just that you are doubting her, do you really love her and trust her, why such a doubt after five long years, it is a kind of fear, that develops into doubt, and then jealousy make you both fight and separate, another thing if she is your xgf, as you have said, are your married now, if so why do you go after your xgf. be specific,
2006-09-10 22:43:07 · answer #10 · answered by raja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋