I am single for almost a year now. And still seeing my ex-boyfriend of 5-6 years relationship. We meet only on Sunday(s) and always end up having sex. I know its not healthy. Should I continue seeing him? Its hard to forget about him, because I lost "it" with him.
2006-09-10 21:54:59 · 14 answers · asked by plastik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you want more from the relationship. Ask yourself and behonest what you want to gain from being with him. If your not honest with yourself your only hurting yourself.
I know every girl wants to be in a loving relationship where she feels safe, loved,desired appericated and respected. You deserve that.
2006-09-10 21:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation. Mine lasted eight years. I had to break away. I say no light at the end of our tunnel. You'll never forget about him. And in some way you just need to turn a cold heart. We're friends, we speak. But the longing is still there because I quit dating, at least for now. I need a clean slate if I ever meet another guy I may consider a relationship with. No rebounds. I'd give the world to be with him, but unfortunately, it;s a dead end and I know that. You need to get on with your life just like I do. Let go and run and start just enjoying yourself. Time will heal eventually. You said you lost "it" with him. Well, it;s a little late to worry about it now. Like these days, who cares anyway. Just you, and that;s a good thing that you care. Apparently, he doesn't care. Only meeting once a week, I don't know how you hung there as long as you have without telling him to hit the road if he didn't want to see you and do other things with you. I'd tell him to hit the road and get on with your life. I'm sure he's out there the rest of the week doing something.
2006-09-10 22:08:26 · answer #2 · answered by one_sahara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who its not healthy. better consalt a doctor if u have doubt on me its not bad health. its better for health u continue with him until can get a married partner or better marry him as a partner for the same.
what is the meaning of marriage licensing one for other for sex throught out the life then how sex could be unhealthy.
it may be unhealthy if u do it all the time (24 hrs) of 7 days u will do not do that u cannot.
better continue it.
2006-09-10 22:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sampath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've "lost it with him" then why do you still see him and make love every weekend? Is it merely for old times sake or to satisy the call of nature? Leave him and find yourself a new bf because this one is obviously having a free and good time with you while he has his heart's fill during weekdays with no strings attached.
2006-09-10 22:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you move on with your life without him, your memory will be there for some time.
it is the memory you should treasure and not the sex thing with him because when you marry a guy, it is forever and not a moment - every sunday.
once the memory fades away slowly and you have been moving on, you will know a better guy who is interested in giving you a life and not just because of the sex.
mercury of love
2006-09-11 06:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by mercury of love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask urself these Qs: Do u love him? Are u happy being with him? Wat do u want from this kind of "relationship"? Though u lost "it" to him, does that mean u have to "follow him forever"? Is he seeing u jus for sex? Is it worth it to be with a guy who wants u jus for sex? In the first place, why do u break up with ur ex? Remember the reason u break up and hold on to it. I think he is jus interested in sex, sori to say that...
2006-09-10 22:09:34 · answer #6 · answered by libby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship has broken but you keep meeting him every sunday ? It looks like you are trying to hang on to him. Find somebody else and stop seeing this man once for all.
2006-09-10 22:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still seeing each other and having sex every week, you two might as well get back together.
2006-09-10 22:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by beetee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats stupid. Obviously the chemistry is still there. Stop being stubborn and realise your feelings... you only have on life, whats to lose?
2006-09-10 21:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut it now, coz u'll end up 2gether again or u might b hurt when he moves on...
2006-09-10 21:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋