do guys, particularly when drunk, feel obligated to either pinch or slap ladies bums?? I mean - please - look by all means - but pinching??? Owww!!!
2006-09-10 21:52:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yep - apologies to those guys who DONT do it - didnt mean to include ye in my question!!
2006-09-10 21:55:10 · update #1
Mostly its because the drink brings out the true nature of a bloke, I have never in my entire life pinched or slapped a girls bum, preferring the absolute pleasure of staring happily at really pretty girls and indeed their bums.
I have never understood why you ladies seem happy to pair off with these drunken molesters,surely you can get an idea of how they are going to treat you in the future
I know some will say, the only reason others don't do it is because they lack the confidence or are boring when in fact some of us have a bit of respect or like me are so old and ugly know they haven't got a chance anyway.
Why not just slap then round the face or alternatively a quick knee in the genitals would be seen i think as an equivalent term of endearment
Good Luck and keep that bum protected
2006-09-10 22:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by greydays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy pinches your *** he's either doing it to impress his mates or because he's daft enough to think you'll actually enjoy the experience. It's a diluted method of the caveman way of clubbing a woman over the head in order to 'claim her'. Obviously men who do that were raised by parents where the dad was in charge and the mother was the servant. My girlfriend has been reduced to tears in the past through men constantly grabbing and pinching her because she's made to feel so much like an object. That kind of behaviour really cheeses me off, any man who acts that way should be really ashamed of themselves. The worst thing is there actually are braindead women out there who giggle and feel complimented when a man grabs her *** and that just encourages those idiots who do it. C'mon ladies, you're supposed to be our better half! If someone grabs and pinches your *** then grab and pinch his balls!
2006-09-11 01:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I worked in a bar in Ipswich where I used to get it all the time- one guy tried to kiss me when I had my hands full of glasses- he could have at least waited til they were empty so I was able to slap him! I also worked at 'spoons in Bristol, I got pinched on the bum once by a guy who was well known for being lecherous, I felt so dirty, but my boss wouldn't let me go home and shower, I reckon there is room for amendments in the employment laws.
2006-09-10 21:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by emily_jane2379 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really like you Pamela, i feel like you think exactly the same as me, it's refreshing to hear a girl say these kind of things rather than 'Guys what do you prefer, a girls face or body' it's just stupid that some women would ask that, i find you a breath of fresh air Pamela, thank you! And i myself would love to know why random blokes feel they have the right to pinch your **** or touch you, it's just not on, i find it the most infuriating thing ever!
2006-09-10 23:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by ghi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only guys of low intellect and low moral standing, why not just turn around and slap/pinch their stupid faces and ask them how it feels!
2006-09-11 01:22:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nick B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no idea, I don't do it. I guess they stupidly think that you'll find it flattering or flirty.
I am prone to stroking my lady's bottom a lot, but I do that whether or not I've been drinking because it's a lovely bum!
2006-09-10 21:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by fruitbat7711 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol lowers inhibitions...blah blah blah
But maybe you were just shaking a bit too provocatively. Maybe you should try wearing something less attractive until you learn to conrol your bum
2006-09-10 22:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by All the answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you Irish???
Testing for texture is important in every decision, when you bake a cake, or cook a meal, such as pasta, and when you're buying fresh bread and fruit....
One must have a feel!
2006-09-13 03:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by irishcharmer84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beats me... I had my butt grabbed 4 freaking times over the weekend whilst out clubbing with my friends
2006-09-10 21:56:32 · answer #9 · answered by brown_sugah064 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, I think it is one of those primal 'who's your daddy' things. Many of us (myself excluded) think it shows us as the alpha male. Alcohol just makes these primal urges represent themselves easier.
I don't think any guy thinks it turns women on or makes him look particularly sexy, but we do it anyway to show our 'dominance' lol.
2006-09-10 22:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋