I am 30, and am still worried that I masturbate too much, along with all this comes every other issue that is related to this. i.e. Is masturbatin a sin. Why do I worry about the size of my penis, why do I want to compare myself to other guys. Why do I feel so insecure about myself. But I suppose the biggest question is. Why Can't I feel the Love and security from God. Why can't I get closer to God. How do I stop sinning and start living a Godly Life?
(P.S. I used to be full time in Children's ministry)
2006-09-10 21:44:41 · 3 answers · asked by weeroppadc2 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm not married, But I was sexually involved with a girl a few years ago. After I left full time ministry and rebelled against God.
2006-09-10 22:08:09 · update #1
Masturbation, much like criminal intent, is only a sin if you masturbate to someone (or God forbid, some *thing*) that you KNOW you shouldn't be masturbating to. It's also been proven that maturbating is healthy because it relieves you of stress, sexual furstration, etc.
As for your penis, who gives a ****? It's not the size of the blade that counts, it's the technique you use. Basic logic, man.
You forgot to mention if you are you married or not. This plays a vital role in your question.
P.S.--Pray about it. One thing I find myself constantly forgetting to do is pray for knowledge and wisdom. Not feeling God? Pray about it, dude.
2006-09-10 21:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant answer you as a Christian sorry
but i have to say i feel the age old quote applies here
how can you give your love to anyone if you dont truly love yourself
this should even apply to loving God
learn to love yourself for who you are and all you are .. including the parts of you that you may not like ... they are what makes you you
only when you have done that .. and love and respect yourself fully
can you give that love to someone else .. and God
unless we love ourself .. we can never know what love really is .. and if we never know what love really is .. how can we know what we are giving to others
2006-09-10 21:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by Peace 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to quit thinking about self and start doing for others. This all boils down to pride.
2006-09-10 21:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by B"Quotes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋