my bf is saying we need to talk because his hurting to much and his been really moody and its upseting his friends and family,
what does it mean?
pls dont be rude or mean bout it i re3ally love him nd im really scared its over :(
2006-09-10 21:00:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it's over dont worry you may love him but in the long run its probley for the best
2006-09-10 21:02:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well let's think about this! have you two been fighting, if so then he might want to talk about how its not working out or something like: I think I need some air! just the good old breather. But if you have not been fighting then he's probably just going threw the poor me, I don't know whats wrong with me,But he;s so mopey that who couldn't tell there's something wrong. Or it the big of all biggies!!! he had s- x with someone else, and he feels bad and has been hurting over it, now don't get upset because your not sure either.
I would think that if you were fighting you would know. Sometimes people just go threw down times, Just keep letting him know that you are grateful for coming into your life,and thank him for loving you!!!!! REMEMBER to think of your self too
2006-09-11 04:22:53 · answer #2 · answered by looking4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Encourage him to speak up and try not to interrupt him until he has finished venting. Find out what the problem is and try not to think about your needs first until you could ease him up with what´s bothering him. The word is "listen" and "sharing" opinions only when he has gotten all it out of his system. Be smart not to cry it will worsen his feelings whatever it may be. Men want to be heard ..let him decide what´s best for him or if the problem involves you be courageous and maintain your calmness, be supportive. Find solutions and talk it over when he has finally said everything he wants to say to you or make a compromise if he agrees to it. It not, then what´s best is his decision because pushing your own ideas will not be too helpful. Remember he asked to talk to you means he wants you to listen to him. Just give him priority during your conversation. This may ease any tension or depression that´s inside him.
2006-09-11 04:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would probably need to clarify the question for us...but as it stands, He may not be happy right now...not to say its over or anything.....If you love him, talk to him and see if there is something you can do to help these feelings he is having. You also need to realize us men are a complicated bunch and anything could be causing this , so be patient and as understanding as possible.
2006-09-11 04:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by mrfixit_1001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry honey. It sounds like it is over. He sounds like he may be manic or bipolar. I am, so I know what he could be going through. There is something wrong.
Be wary, he may be feeling guilty of something. I hope you two work out. Love is beautiful together, but terrible when torn apart...
I know....
2006-09-11 04:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's not enough information here for us to fully know the circumstances. Is he getting a lot of hurt from you or from other things?
2006-09-11 04:02:36 · answer #6 · answered by pureessence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must relax and wait for his next move . You must stop worrying things , not in your control and answer .If you take thing seriously you will be always in depression , better live your life & keep your intelectual mind open to live in peace .
2006-09-11 04:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully he's not doing drugs ~ he may need a good listener ~ but you have to ask him 1st !
Give him space if, he needs although - it sounds he needs someone to talk to or just listen to his problems !
2006-09-11 04:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be gong through some personal stuff and may just need space. Don't be scared, be understanding.
2006-09-11 04:02:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry love...... he is missing something that make him whole and you don't have it at this time ....... what you should do is talk to him a really listen to everything he say...... after that find out what he is missing in his life......... if you cann't fill that vord, no matter who much you love him he well never be happy
2006-09-11 04:11:11 · answer #10 · answered by Dark Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋