would you forgive your LD boyfriend of 1 year for not calling you in 3 weeks if u know he's under a big stress, eg. just got fired, need to get a new job soon, as well as relocating ? What will you do?
2006-09-10 20:09:31 · 16 answers · asked by JJ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. I did call him couple times 3 weeks ago but nobody picks up the phone, and did emails him couple times, still no respone..
2006-09-10 20:28:58 · update #1
It seems like he has a good reason and you should forgive him but I would still make it clear that it upset me that didn't call (without stressing him out even more). Still, 3 weeks is quite a while to ignore your girlfriend. You need to let him know that no matter what he's going through, he can talk to you.
2006-09-10 22:46:09 · answer #1 · answered by shosha_tiqo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man and I personally, I would not avoid calling my gf for three weeks, especially during an extremely stressful period in my life, when I need someone whom loves me to be with me the most.
2006-09-11 03:16:25 · answer #2 · answered by Scorpio9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks? i could understand a few days but not weeks. Thats just not right. It takes 30 seconds to pick up the phone and say " hello"
2006-09-11 03:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LD as in long distance right?
forgive him. he's busy. n under alot of stress. cut him some slack. instead of whining, u shld be there for him.
2006-09-11 03:40:11 · answer #4 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know he's under all this stress, why haven't you been calling him?!
I'd say it isn't much of a relationship if you aren't helping him when he's in a time of trouble.
2006-09-11 03:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried calling him? Hint. Stress can bring depression which breeds withdrawal. Call him and offer to buy the coffee, drinks, etc.
2006-09-11 03:25:53 · answer #6 · answered by Vince P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt be in a LD relationship in the first place, but no i wouldnt forgive him....
2006-09-11 03:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes but tell him that he needs to pay you more heed. Also, you should put out the effort if he is under stress.
2006-09-11 03:12:39 · answer #8 · answered by shindaiwa21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not doing anything wrong dont punish him
some ppl need their space for awhile but not too long
give him some time but keep in touch
give him enough rope to hang himself and if he does
well im sorry, if he doesnt then he's ok
2006-09-11 03:16:43 · answer #9 · answered by tim s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 wks is way 2 long not 2 have any means of communication...
i dnt think i can stay w/him.. i'l 4gve him but that's it!
my bf wud not even sms nor call me 4 2 days & it drove me so mad..
2006-09-11 03:59:19 · answer #10 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋