Ok, dose this sound intimidating? I am single, never been kissed, im in my 20's, I work 2 jobs, go to college for engineering, payed for everything I have, own a nice luxury SUV, and will own a home in ten years. Cause I am seariously BOYFRIEND CHALLENGED, and all enybody ever tells me is that I intimidate guys with what I have become. So tell me, do I sound intimidating?
2006-09-10 20:03:14 · 32 answers · asked by J-LO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
intimidating..nah..how can a young and successful (virgin) woman like yourself be intimidation...to me you are alluring...
as regard to the challenge you are facing..i suggest you give some more time before you decide to share you beauty and success...with someone out there...
2006-09-10 20:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you do sound intimidating. Reading your question made me had to do a quick 'check spelling' before I send off the answer. =D
You sound like a very serious person who is determined to succeed in life. Good for you. However, love is not about money, love is blind.
"The world is a stage and we are but mere actors acting a certain part on a certain stage." You being so successful, you might lure the wrong type of guys and scare aways the right ones.
So be the Prince that acts like a peasant and see if any guys like you for who you are and not what you have become.
2006-09-10 20:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Inquisit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not from what you have said but you could have intimidating personality aspects. Meet a nice guy in college and just plain ask him out. Kiss him. Once I had my first girlfrield I felt a fair bit more confident, and I would be more confident now if I had asked her out. You don't really have to have a hell of a lot of interest in the guy. Just do it to gain confidence. Also, I like a girl with money, that way I know she isn't dating me to exploit my money (that I will have :)) Also, dump that SUV for a Mazda Miata or a BMW Z3. SUV's are a turn off in my book.
2006-09-10 20:11:17 · answer #3 · answered by shindaiwa21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mmm.... i can see that you are just being independent & not someone who is very strong & hard in character. For me, i find it's nothing wrong with 2 jobs. I mean to be able to survive and face the world,if 1 job isn't enough then gotta go for 2. Guys might feel that way b-cos they often feel they are the head of the family & should responsible for their spouse. While in your case, you are young and much independent than most people, they might feel the strong character of yours. If you are the intimidate type, you wouldn't have asked this question.
2006-09-10 21:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by william 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound intimidating to me in the slightest, all i can see is that u have taken care of urself and u have got ur life in order b4 u have started to seriously become involved with another. In fact i think its great and very mature of you to take this notion. At least u know now that u are stable in your own life and that u are self sufficient b4 embarking on a relationship. the only thing i will warn u against is when u get a guy, please please make sure he is self sufficient as well, many guys will see the SUV and automatically see a meal ticket. Good to see a girl that has some savvvy bout her. good luck to ya :)
2006-09-10 20:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if accordingly to what you have written. You are too straight and forceful from what you have express. Guys always like women who is gentle and feminine. If you think that you are financially intimidating maybe what you are looking is at the wrong age period. Look for guys at the 30-35 odd range, as most of them are financially stable. Never confront guys straight up, as we will feel challenge and will definately reject. Try to go for the soft gentle approach. Everybody men would like to be the hero of their ladies.
2006-09-10 20:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Yup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, No. But another guy might find you intimidating for the sole reason that you are so sucessful, and seem to know what you want. A lot of people would be afriad that they wouldn't add up to you in a lot of ways, or it might make them feel bad about wherre they are in life.
Im 19 and i have relationship problems too. Its just the way things go sometimes ^^. We'll find the right one someday, till then, keep kickin *** ^^
2006-09-10 20:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Dylan F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will intimidate those guys that are weak in their inner selves. They will be scared by such a focused person.
You can find a guy to match you, but it's harder for you than it is for the nice little cuties out there. And I am not talking about looks.
But with your tight time table there won't be much room for a guy anyway.
2006-09-10 20:08:32 · answer #8 · answered by ak2005ok 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! That sounds AWESOME to me! You will find the right guy later or he will find you. Believe me, there are plenty of guys out there who find it VERY sexy that a woman drives an SUV and is smart and responsible. Try to be patient, it will go by slow now but looking back to it in the future, you will wonder how it happened so fast!
Good luck!
;)
2006-09-10 20:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOt intimidating to me no. But how do you respond to guys who look at you do you tend to shrug them off, do you act all upity and snob. See body language is the first attraction to any sex so just look at that. But get me right i dont want you to change because i for one love any woman who works for what she wants and doesnt stall on one perspective. If i should ever hook up with you i probably would marry. Why?because i think that you wont be marrying me for my money.
2006-09-10 21:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by chad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋