should i get back with him or not?
Me and my Ex was together 2 and half years. I cheated on him wit my other ex boyfriend. Then cheated on me with a female he use to chat with online. Me and him been trying to work things out and hook back up. But he say he cant trust me cause of wat i did but he did the same thing. He dont want me talkin any of my guy friends.He dont want me to go out or anything.He think i should stay home and just go to work
The female he cheated on me with they still talk. he say they dont but i know they do..But he think he should keep all of his female friends and do wateva he want to.When I do the same thing he do he wanna get mad
2006-09-10 19:50:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on if u and him cant trust each other there is no reason to be together..u can love each other all yall want to but without trust u dont have anything
2006-09-10 19:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by msladykay2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your concentration must be on your daughter. If SHE desires something, for sure you'd be there for her ... proper? The dishonest, entitled ex appears like she's finally getting her comeuppance. Why do not you basically delight in it, as a lot as you may, and do not raise a finger for her. If she managed to blow 1 / 4 of one million money, then it truly is all on her that she's broke now. What an fool. the reason you experience like you may help them is because you've were given a sturdy coronary heart. you surely sound like an outstanding guy, so for sure you want to 'do the right ingredient'. besides the undeniable fact that, in this social gathering, the surely human being who advantages any compassion from you is your daughter. shop her satisfied, fed, clothed, housed and although else she desires ... besides the undeniable fact that the ex - lump of coal, and he or she is acquainted with what she will be in a position to placed it. possibly she'll finally end up with a diamond after some days ... ya imagine? :D best of success to you !
2016-11-26 00:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by owsley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is a definite NO. you both cheated which means that there were problems in the relationship that neither of you loved each other enough to work out. he still talks to the girl he cheated on you with. doesn't that crush you? he doesn't even respect you enough to cease contact. you cheated on him with an ex and now he is jealous of all your boy friends so you will never be allowed to talk to any of them again. how can he trust you and how can you trust him. you both need to move on.
2006-09-10 19:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, you should move on. Even if you love each other, there is no trust or honesty in your relationship with this man. Why do you want to hurt yourself even more by staying in a deadend relationship? Move on and start with the healing process and hopefully you'll learn to trust, respect and love the next guy you're with.
2006-09-10 19:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should both check out the swinging lifestyle together! If you were both cheating there obviously was something lacking in the sex life. Explore the swinging thing like 3somes with another woman or man and see if you like it or not.
I know a lot of couples that are into that sort of stuff and they say, a couple that plays together stays together.
2006-09-10 19:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by big10inmidd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesnt deserve you. yeah you both made a mistake but hes being a hypocrite....its not right that he can do something that hes telling you not to do. its either hes jealous or insecure. its almost as if hes treating u like a prisoner and u dont deserve to be treated like that. the best thing for you to do is not to get back with him.
2006-09-10 19:56:09 · answer #6 · answered by preciousangel831 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you both should go your seperate ways
you both broke the most sacred form of trust in a relationship
just for a few moments of pleasure?
either you guys are real young or real stupid
get on with it!
2006-09-10 19:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by tim s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u have 2 4get about him,it's not gonna work.
u both cant trust each other,u both have 2 move on.
good luck.
2006-09-10 19:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Compton,CA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Admit that the both of you are whorish and liars. Admit that the both of you play mind games with yourselves and others. Admit that the both of you ain't sugar, honey, ice tea. Grow up, but until then the both of you are LOSERS!
2006-09-10 19:59:24 · answer #9 · answered by No shame, No game 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is so pathetic. You both need to stay away from ANY relationships until you can get yourselves straightened out.
2006-09-10 19:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by pullinghairout 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋