So there is this regular customer who comes in my coffee shop. He always flirts with me (touchie feelie etc) but he never answers the phone who I call and the one date we went on.. he barely touched me physically and didn't even kiss me goodnight. So I stopped calling/texting him and he became to act like he likes me again. Now he has stopped. Is he just jerking me around or is he just confused? Help!
2006-09-10 19:49:55 · 7 answers · asked by Confused Yahoo User 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy i would tell u that ur FRIEND is afraid.
he is afraid from:
1-loosing u (thats why he keeps coming to ur coffee shop and keeps checking on u ).
2-loving u and getting more and more involved in a romantic relation with u ( thats why he prefers to ignore u now and then)
So, he seems confused ......
My advise is to make it easier for him and alwas make him take the initiative for calling or asking for a date...
Good luck.
2006-09-10 19:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by 007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants to flirt with you. Have a bit of fun and maybe he's not ready to go into a relationship. Maybe he just wants to make you feel good about yourself. You need to sit down, have a coffee with him and talk things out, it will help!
2006-09-10 19:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by babii_sparkle_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not too sure but let me ask you, do you like him? If you do, you might be sending him signals of your interest which makes him act in a certain way. Maybe confused, yes...palying around, could be also.
2006-09-10 19:52:28 · answer #3 · answered by leelee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is confused, think back on ur only date with him, did u send the same signals as u did when u were working at the coffeeshop? u might get ur answer there
2006-09-10 20:03:28 · answer #4 · answered by rulewell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's confused and is confusing you too - so why don't you just talk about it, you know, clear the airway so that you can do your next move either together or separately if you're just not it.
2006-09-10 19:53:37 · answer #5 · answered by paoui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is as confused as you are and the dust should settle....you would know for real his real intentions.........
2006-09-10 19:51:46 · answer #6 · answered by uknownotlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's married
2006-09-10 20:01:03 · answer #7 · answered by vick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋