There was a guy that I knew when I worked with him, thinking he was single gave him my phone number. Offered me a ride on his motorcycle and I never got it (wondered why?) Well then I wondered why, he said he had a girlfriend. Well the messed up thing is I have HSV-2 and it makes me shy of dating. Because I knew he was having relationship problems I stayed plantonic friends. But I had a acl injury and my car stolen three weeks after......... at the same time and did not have a boyfriend. Can a guy really understand, so one time I made him angry and went to go to talk to him outside of work. I did not go upstairs to his condo the night that I went to talk to him, well because of my disease I was concered with being intimate. So I left the next thing I know at work I am being called a freak. Is this fair that a guy feels rejected because a girl cared about him enough she did not want to give him anything potentially unless he could understand? So who is the jerck here? I lost my job.
2006-09-10 19:49:46 · 5 answers · asked by Michele P. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know but thanks for the 2 points
2006-09-10 19:54:57 · answer #1 · answered by milky*energy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's definitely discrimination against you. Go sew who-ever fired you. You definitely have a problem, whether you got it by your own fault or not, you are not a freak, though you may have let down responsibility at one time, we all have. You just payed dearly. There is no excuse for what happened to you, it's actual discrimination, and I hardly ever say that word cause in the discrimination field I am a heartless Conservative.
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"r have HSV-2 than not get laid. Don't worry about it, just do it. Someone gave it to you without telling didn't they? It's a cycle that you didn't cause and couldn't stop. All you can do by telling is make certain that you never are in a relationship again. What sensible person would ever say: sure that's cool. So what, are you going to be single the rest of your life?"
It's because of people like you that these diseases exist and are not controlled. If everyone did their part there would be no AIDS and most of the diseases in society would barely exist. Think about it: You have a cold. You could go to work with it and be okay, but you will spread it to a few more people who will spread it out even more, it's exponential. And if you had just stayed home, it would have never had to go beyond you. Because it has a self-enforced karma, eventually a mutation of that same virus you allowed to spread will find you again... Now it may not seem serious with a cold, but there are things that are much more serious. Dump the cavalier attitude and take some responsibility...
2006-09-10 19:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by shindaiwa21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably not telling the whole story. BUT, keep this in mind: guys would rather have HSV-2 than not get laid. Don't worry about it, just do it. Someone gave it to you without telling didn't they? It's a cycle that you didn't cause and couldn't stop. All you can do by telling is make certain that you never are in a relationship again. What sensible person would ever say: sure that's cool. So what, are you going to be single the rest of your life?
2006-09-10 19:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi Michele, This is a problem,and getting fired over not sleeping with the A S S HOLE with the motorcycle isn't right.Who ever is your boss,You need to see him,and tell him what took place,and he has no grounds for fireing you.If things doesn't work out for you,You might want to see a lawyer.It depends if you want your job back,and still would like to work there. Good Luck.
Clowmy
2006-09-10 20:06:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to face the fact that almost all men are D!cks.
2006-09-10 19:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋