We we're going out for just a little over 2 1/2 years. We had broken up a week ago but gotten back together. Tonight was what broke it off for good I think.
Scene: I'm doing her homework since she asked and im looking on the net for some info. She says something about a book but I only catch the first part and didnt hear the rest of what she said because she spoke so softly. I asked her if she remembered what the book was about and she goes, "Oh my god you never listen to me" She then hits my head and says "It goes in one ear and out the other" and then pokes my earhole really hard like a child. I then react and raise my arm to bat her hand away and it makes a slapping noise( it wasnt hard at all) and then she looks at me like im a murderer! She then says she cant believe I "hit" her. What a joke she made me so angry and said the poke in the ear was not childish. I did everything for her and I mean everything and I feel like I wasted my time for 2 years. My fault or hers?
2006-09-10 19:42:26 · 16 answers · asked by Hawaiian21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both, you because you stayed with her, hers for just being stupid...
2006-09-10 19:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it is both ur faults. let me explain each slowly starting from hers.
hers: she should not have asked u to do her homework, that way she wont learn anything from school. also, she should not have poked u hard in the earhole, it can lead to something serious which i cant remember exactly what.
yours: u on the other hand were too kind but should not have helped her do her homework, look above for my explanation. also, if she talked too softly, u should have asked her to speak up cos u cant hear her well. i m sure she would gladly raise her voice a little to an audible volume for u. then, u should not have asked her if she remembered what the book was about, it is obvious she was trying to explain what it was about to u but u couldnt hear her. u should have asked something like "can u repeat again? i couldnt really hear u just now." i would not say u hitting her was wrong but maybe try telling her that she should not have hit u so hard cos that was pain.
ok thats about all, think about it. break ups are usually the fault of both parties in one way or another.
2006-09-10 19:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's known you for 21/2 yrs and you've never been violent. You're doing her homework for her(!) and thinking so hard you don't hear what she says. She assaults you, and then acts like you abused her. Because of course only males can abuse and only females can be victims.
It's hard to believe nothing like this ever happened before, but you're right, you wasted 2 years. Just be glad that's all you wasted, and that you don't have children with this bimbo! You could have had 3 kids with her when suddenly this happened and she not only would break up but get the 3 kids and child support until they're 18. If she didn't get you put in jail!
2006-09-10 19:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by Plain and Simple 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds kind of childish. First of all how does she expect you to listen to her talk and do her homework at the same time? She should be happy you're doing that for her. I'd be happy if my boyfriend did my homework...I also wouldnt be buggin him and hitting him and poking him in the ear.
And you didnt really hit her, you were moving her arm out of the way. I think it was her fault. You were right to break up with her. And dont think of it as wasting 2 years, think of it as a learning experience.
2006-09-10 19:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by laker_girl85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a user, and you're the used. Every relationship has that dynamic. It's not a matter of fault, it's a matter of nature. You're doing her homework for her so obviouly she is a nimrod and you want someone who is your equal. It may take some time but it will be in your long-term interest to forget she exists, because she is human waste.
2006-09-10 19:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i be attentive to this for specific, this dating wont final. you're prepared to cheat, she's prepared to cheat... your the two prepared to deceive one yet another. Yeah none of it relatively is sturdy. yet hey! If it relatively is what your the two up for then be my customer guy. yet neither of you will make it out unscathed... i think, an outstanding variety of the wear and tear it relatively is to return has already been completed. If I have been you, i'd in all probability get out of there... or a minimum of make it good that it extremely is a sort of fck buddy variety subject. playstation . you 2 do no longer love one yet another. That a lot is glaring.
2016-09-30 13:52:13 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR FAULT...
Why you were doing her homework in first place? Its HER homework for heavens sake...
lets see, you were doing her homework.. she mentioned some book. You didn't heard the last part of the book. She blamed you for it. poked you ... when you reacted you were made sorry... POOR you...
2006-09-10 19:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by direct2leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loose the zero.
4 petes sake u were doing her homework!
2006-09-10 19:45:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you both need to move on before womeone gets hurt. either emotionally or physically. it sounds to me like you both want out. so i think it would be best if you broke up with her. i'm not sure how old you are but she sounds like she is about 10. good luck.
2006-09-10 19:48:30 · answer #9 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her fault..of all the places, why does she has to poke ur ears? its not good for u cause u can go deaf..but i think guys usually attracted to that kinda girls..so :)
2006-09-10 20:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hers. definetly hers. she's got some problems inside her head and it seems as if she's taking them all out on you. just by the "you never listen to me" part.. you deserve better. let her alone to figure herself out.
2006-09-10 19:44:24 · answer #11 · answered by keep it real 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋