There is this girl that I digg very much, but everytime I hang out with her at her place, when her phone rings she would asnwer it and go into her room and closes the door. She won't come out till an hour or so later, I don't know who she is talking to but I do know it's a guy because I can hear his voice when she answers.
I think I am so stupid to be jealous, I'm not really trying to go out with her, but I just get so jealous over this.
...could it be a friend or someone she likes? how do I not be jealous and not let this bother me?
2006-09-10 19:24:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her, if she answer honestly & quiclky without resrevationthan good. if she deny any guys, making excuse that don't add up. she may be with someone else. drop her, u deserve better. its always easier to leave a realtionship earlier than later. remeber there i over billions of human on earth, so u got at least minimun 500,000 girls of the right category for u to choose.
2006-09-10 19:31:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u like her more than ur willing 2 admit or u would not be feeling jealousy. maybe u should think aobut ur feelings a little more closely n if u like her see if she likes u n then go from there.
but if u just want 2 be friends then u should not be jealous over whomever she talks 2 but u know I would speak 2 her about her rude *** attitude....if u have company u never leave them alone n go chat on the phone 4 an hour like that...its just bad form.
2006-09-11 02:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Geo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you're not her boyfriend. To her, she would feel like it is none of your business who she can or can't talk to. Instead of feeling jealous or stupid, why don't you gather up the courage to ask her to be steady with you? If she agrees to it, she should know better to not be on the phone for an hour with a guy. She would have to pay more attention to you. But in my opinion, if a girl talks to a guy for an hour and ignores you, it usually means that she's digging him instead. Good luck!
2006-09-11 02:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show up at her place less often. Maybe she'll miss having you around. If not then she's into the other guy. Sorry but if she were into you she wouldn't spent that much time on the phone with you there. Damn the internet sure allows you to be blunt.
2006-09-11 02:27:37 · answer #4 · answered by pullinghairout 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is rude if she is talking on the phone for an hour and your there. I would leave and let her talk on the phone. If she asks why did you leave, say to her I'm a guest and I don't like you leaving me to do nothing for an hour, so I left.
2006-09-11 02:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one i find her very very rude' if you have company or friends over you dont go hide away ' and she dont even tell you how long shes gonna be gone? she could always cut the call short and get back them later 'you jealous? NOOOOO 'id be mad as hell 'im sorry i find her a bit rude
2006-09-11 02:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by bossy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rude to talk on the phone for that long. I would leave
Women like to play games, esp. the jealously one. If you like this girl you can't play into it.
Trust me, jealously is a "balance" thing when your in a relationship, you got to show a little to show u care but not to much that you look like idiot. when your not in a relationship that shouldn't take place.
Be confident(women like that) and don't worry about the other guy. Don't play into any of her "tests" or games
2006-09-11 02:40:29 · answer #7 · answered by McOff.80 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and get started...she is not interested of u coz if she likes u and she knows that u there in her place she should stop answering that phone..or let the answering machine get the message...dont waste ur time to her.....
remember if the person like u as much as u like her/him they gonna stop what they r doing just to be there w/u....they gonna give u more important than what they r doing.......
gud luck!
2006-09-11 02:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK first you should be mad . ask your self why she have to live the room when the phone ring humm OK be real with yourself she is seen someone guy sorry but what it is is what it is let it go
2006-09-11 02:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON. #1 IT'S RUDE AND DISRESPECTFUL TO LEAVE YOU FOR AN HOUR WHILE SHE YAPS AT ANOTHER DUDE ON THE PHONE. #2 IT IS SUPPOSED TO BOTHER YOU. #3 THERE ARE A BILLION OR SO CHICKS IN THE WORLD...DONT WAISTE YOUR TIME ON HER WHILE SHE'S BEING A SUPREME TURD. #4 REMEMBER, NO MATTER HOW HOT A CHICK IS, THERE IS ALWAYS SOMEONE OUT THERE WHO IS SICK OF HER SH*T !!!!
2006-09-11 02:39:02 · answer #10 · answered by dillenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋