i met a guy at a bar we slept togother that night, no am not a hoe! i normally dont do that. I broke it off after four days he made it very clear he just wanted sex, but yet i feel like crap and guiltly i actually miss him is that possible?
2006-09-10 19:20:04 · 14 answers · asked by aznat1984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were attracted to him. You wanted more, maybe you didn't know it. So that is why you feel they way you do in a way you probably feel like you cheated yourself. He didn't give you the things that you wanted, so you feel hurt. Don't bother with him. If he calls you its because he wants sex. He is not calling because of what you want.
2006-09-10 19:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its possible and you can't really take guys serious when they say they only want sex, it may start out that way for them but they relate sex to love and if the sex is good and you treat them well they end up wanting more of a relationship than they reliazed. They sure don't want no other man with you so the two of you do end up in a relationship, to me it was always a challenge to make them love me when they thought they only wanted sex and it usually worked but remember you have to be sweet and treat them well. I say call him chances are he misses you too! Good Luck!
2006-09-11 02:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by katie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, perhaps you felt used and rejected. Yes, you agree to the one night stand. But like you said, you don't normally do something like that. It could be that because it was your first time ever having a one night stand, your conscience mind is feeling the guilt as a result. There's nothing you can do about it now, you just have to live with the consequences of your action. I just hope that you used protection.
2006-09-11 02:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might miss him you did what most women do but wont admit to.You inintentionally bonded with him during the sex act.It doesnt mean your in love but this is the exact reason I will not have casual sex because I mentally bond with every men Im intimate with.If you are like that every time you break it off its going to hurt.Its Chemistry plain and simple.you cant control it.Stop having casual sex.
2006-09-11 02:29:20 · answer #4 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You felt close to him after being intimate with him. Your did the right thing of breaking it off with him. He is not good for you. He is only in for the sex and at least he was honest with you! I hope you used protection when you were with him!
2006-09-11 02:33:09 · answer #5 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women feel alot more emotion when we sleep with someone. men don't have this like we do. I can think nothing of a guy, sleep with him, then suddenly think I'm love. Give it time, it'll go away and you'll meet someone else.
2006-09-11 02:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you normally don't do that kinda thing, your feelings have now come out. Take care of yourself and move on.
2006-09-11 02:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by treasureisland85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are crazy little - forget about it. Even if you find him you gonna be in his eves b.....ch is no way for healthy relationship at all.
Possible is only that you need sex right now.
2006-09-11 02:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tsk Tsk Tsk
Must have been some bomb azz sex.
2006-09-11 02:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by Lucy Lu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope he's maybe with another girl already. guys are like that - they just want sex - give it a while and you'll find someone way better
2006-09-11 02:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋