I saw my exgirl (she dumped me 5 months ago and I hadnt gotten over her) kissing another guy and I went into a jealous rage and slapped her and pushed her down. I then threw some punches at her boyfriend. Now three days she is calling me on my cellphone and showing an interest in me again. Why? I am still so angry at her for dumping me a while back. I have strong feelings for her. Do women like violent men? I did see her with another guy after she dumped me and i walked away like a man. But i didnt get any results from doing that. THis time I lost control and now im getting results. Obviously women like men who fight for their girl?
2006-09-10 19:18:36 · 24 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems you are craven man
2006-09-10 19:38:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putting your hands on a girl doesn't make you a "MAN"
You need to open your eyes and realize that she dumped you because you were no good for her and now 5 months later you're all of a sudden good for her ...
The girl is a looser and so are you for going back to her !!
Next time think twice before hitting a girl , she may not take it and you may end up in jail , being some guys B i T c H!!
2006-09-10 19:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship was over for months. I understand your jealousy over someone that you cared for so much, but she was no longer your girlfriend. You should have just walked away again. Sounds to me like she is the kind that craves drama or it turns her on when a guy fights over her. Some women are like that and most of them that are aren't worth the sperm you squirt on them! If you have to fight to prove you care for her shes not worth it. If she has dumped you once she will continue to do it because she knows you will put up with her crap. Every time she gets an itch for some strange dick she will dump you long enough to screw someone else for awhile, then when they are sick of her crap she will want to get back with you. I have a rather large penis and I can get just about any woman to cheat on her significant other because they want to try it out if at the least to say ouch that hurts I don't like big ones! But the fact remains they cheated! They will all cheat, it's a matter of finding the right switches to turn on to get them to. If she did you the way you say she did, she screwed around on you before you were ever split up and probably more than once. Ditch the ho and save yourself the trouble or at least screw her one more time and tell her to get lost.Good Luck!
2006-09-10 19:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by big10inmidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, it can get rough when a girl does that to a guy, you see she didn't realized what she had until she lost it, but you need to control yourself too, because everyone feels like hurting someone at one point or another, but it takes a real person not to let it get to them and to walk away...as for the girl, maybe she was looking for someone who would stand up for her more then you were doing, and when she realized that you would do that for her, she saw what she was looking for...either way, I have had friends who do that to guys, they dump them, hurt them, tear their hearts out, and all so that they can go back to them...she will go as far as you let her....it's up to you if you want to keep letting her back....but I sure wouldn't do it, if it didn't work, and you weren't enough for her then why should you take her back now that she misses you???
2006-09-10 19:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by Cool Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure of the psychology behind her on this issue, because alot of women, I've noticed, if they are done with you.....they're done...there's a slim to none chance of getting back. If I were you I'd be careful because if she was entertained or liked the idea that you fought in this situation, she will probably expect you to do the same in the future.....can you whip every guy's butt?.....of course not....always, always someone bigger and stronger out there. So take a good look at this situation and see if it's worth it.
2006-09-10 19:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. Had you done this to me I wouldh ave called the cops on you. There is something wrong with this girl if she is interested in you for hitting her.
As to you hitting her, let's chalk that up to having a bad day but i would seriously consider seeing a counselor about anger management at the very least for you.
2006-09-10 19:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Meahra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st, all women are not the same, we do not all like the same thing, but, yes, I will speak for myself, what made me fall in love with my true love is when he pulverised another guy I had dated, then tore up every picture I had of him and flushed them down the toilet, then kept me prisoner for a day and told me that I belonged to him. Yup, that's when I fell in love!!! Because, well, I think all women want to feel like they belong to the person they're with. We all claim we want equal rights, but really, it's only natural for us to want to be controlled to an extent, although none of us will ever admit it to the man we're with!!! Oh yes, have you ever heard the song, "Theres no sex in your violence"? I would recomend not hitting her at all, you're probally big enough to control her without hitting her. But if you do, don't leave any bruises!!! Ever!!! The man I love slaps me from time to time and I like it, but he never leaves bruises!!! And he won't let me leave until he's ready for me to and he's sure that I'm calmed down.
2006-09-10 19:28:05 · answer #7 · answered by Tammy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She saw the way you really felt for her. She realised what she lost when she let you go. She must have felt special because you were fighting for her. Give her another chance and if she breaks up with you again, thats life, but you may regret it if you don't act now
2006-09-10 19:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by babii_sparkle_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nextexiter is an a -hole and a perfume smelling left winger. Your not an animal, you're a human being and sometimes we loose it and regret it...but that's how we learn. My humble suggestion to you is to appologize for your outburst and go on to the next girl...obviously this is not the relationship for either of you...go on to a chick where you can start anew without any baggage and have fun.
2006-09-10 19:28:59 · answer #9 · answered by dillenger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you stupid punk she dumped you and if you saw her with another guy that is her biz not yours and if I was there and I saw you hit her I would have beat the brakes off you azz why you have to put your hands on a women and I'm surprised the guy she was with didn't smash your skull in cuz you need it second off so women with low self esteem like guys who beat up on them but they are just as dumb as the guys who hit them your a punk so is the guy she was with and she is a idiot if she tries to take you back what a freakin looser hey if I give you my address with you come over and try to slap me I will show you what her boyfriend should of done and what she should of done when you did it
2006-09-10 19:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by p-nut butter princess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. That was wrong for you to do.
2. She probably does likes a bad boy.
3. She doesn't know what respect is.
2006-09-10 19:45:11 · answer #11 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋