I have been crying for week, but i still can not forget him.
And there is some feeling of killing myself, i want to be back with him but he don't want to be with mi as he have give up on mi. now all i only want is to forget about him and get my life back..
What is the best way to forget about him? i have try alot of thing, like keep myself busy... But it no use....
how? ple help mi...
2006-09-10 18:39:33 · 16 answers · asked by Fen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please dont be disappointed. Be cool. Involve yourself into different activities such as reading books, watching T.V, going out with ur friends. Hope u will definitely overcome this tough situation.
And remember one thing one day he will definitely come to u. wait for that day. Take care and believe in God. by-bye.
2006-09-10 18:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by Sonu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time. Go through the sad stages and cry everyday for as long as it takes. Write in a journal how you feel without thinking about it or wear the clothes that make you feel good & the best advice I can give you is while you're going through the natural stages of sadness just don't forget to stay focused on your career & responsibilities. Think life is hard enough without him think about what if you loose your job to. You'll be fine.
2006-09-11 01:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by bridgeandtunnelgurl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time and lots of it to forget someone you love. Try to think of other things. Read, walk, enjoy nature. Go to movies, go out with a girl friend, and whatever you do, don't call him. Let him call you. He will when and if he wants but don't chase him. Depending on the reason you broke up, ask yourself, "Do I really want to go through that again?" Chances are you don't want to hurt yourself again. If it has been one week, that's a good start. You will still think of him often, but it will become easier each day to forget him. Believe me, it is really hard. But keep from calling or contacting him and when friends ask about him, look at the friend and say, "Do you think it's going to rain?" That usually helps. Good luck, Honey.
2006-09-11 01:43:59 · answer #3 · answered by misty_blue2u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
My first bf and I have been together for 5 years. After we broke up, it kind of took me a full year to get over it.
It is not easy to forget someone.. we are not calcultors that can memory delete at the touch of a button. But that does not mean it is not achievable.
What kind of life do you want to have? What do you want to achieve in your life? Maybe you can focus on other aspects of your life like your career...
Also, what sort of life partner are you looking for? Do you know what are the characteristics of the life partner you are looking for? Well, if the two of you broke up, you must realize that he doesnt meet up to the mark for most of it.. when you realize that, it is easy to let go.
Well, for me, things really turned around for me when I attended this course called SCS.
Not only did I understand from then on why we broke up, I also found out why we were not suitable and learnt that he was not what I was looking for as well.
Also, I managed to find back confidence in myself and find back my happiness. MOst importantly, I found the courage to move on.
It is a life changing course and has helped many of my friends as well. If you are keen to know more about it, you can email me at verityy@yahoo.com
Jia you! You are the best!
Cheers
Angel
2006-09-11 02:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing i always do when i break up with a guy is to, gather up all my girlfriends, buy a new outfit and have a night on the town...or a few nights and just keep doing this until you forget about him.
the other thing is who broke up with who?
If he broke up with you then he must be a jerk, and you have to forget about him. Think of it as he loss and start hanging out with the girls a lot more because they peobably miss you.
And if you broke up with then you must of had a pretty good reason to, cause if you didn't then you would still be with him.
So cheer up butter cup and just think of this as a start of a new adventure and think of all the fun that you can have now.
2006-09-11 01:46:44 · answer #5 · answered by princess_kimnus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to forget him, just learn to let go. We can never forget true love, the more you try to forget, the more you can't let go. Friends can be of great help at this instance, try hang out with friends, if you can't find any friends to hang out with, feel free to write to me.
2006-09-11 02:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with friends and meet new people.........
breaking someone we love is hurt and it takes a while to forget them...its takes time and effort to do all that stuff...but if ur willing to do some volunter works and get busy then it helps u.....have fun and life is like that anyway....remember all of us expirence that pain too..ur not alone be happy on it...coz u know why ,that is the time that u feel inlove....
2006-09-11 01:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need some time. If your writing is an indication of your age, you will probably forget him by the time thanksgiving break comes around.
2006-09-11 01:44:51 · answer #8 · answered by dionne m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only way to forget about someone who means so much to you is to date somebody else and find ur new love.
2006-09-11 01:44:23 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we all have to go through this kind of pain but with time you will feel better. Please don't give up on yourself, you deserve someone who appreciates you. This guy probably did you a favor by getting out of your life.
2006-09-11 01:47:02 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋