i have a bf that plays head games. i mean all the time. i know i should leave him but i want some get back. im a master at head games cuz i am very wit. i see just about everything that is going on around me that people dont think you see them do or thought you forgot. well i dont like to play with people that is why he is getting the best of me. but if i put my action to work i know i could beat him at his own game. do you have any ideas that can keep me strong to where i can get his *** back. i know you people know what the basic mind games are. name hes played it. any ideas. lol. im serious. i just want to get him back. ill give you an example. for two years ive been asking my bf to spend time with me on saturdays. he wouldnt do it for nothing in the world. ok i stopped giving him some. so now this weekend all of a sudden he wants to spend saturday with me. now we all know that when the next weekend come up he will go back to his old ways. so what are some mind games that you know.
2006-09-10 18:30:03 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop giving him some. Stop giving him any.
You are better than that.
You should not be having sex with a boyfriend. Much less someone who acts like a jerk.
Your self-esteem must be really low to accept this nonsense from anybody.
You should break up with him. No Games. That's how you get back at him.
Then when you meet a nice guy, date but no sex.
Do everything you can to stay pure from now on. It will be more difficult because you may have some bad habits of giving in.
Remember the guy who will wait for you to be married to him is not going to use you or play stupid games with your emotions.
God Bless you, ;-)
2006-09-10 18:34:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it really worth it to waste your precious time on playing games. Life is tooooo short. Don't waste your pretty on him find someone who really digs you, that will f***k his mind up more than any game you could play, because you will be living life and not playing. Good luck you deserve better than being an any night but Saturday night booty girl
2006-09-10 18:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by tatsgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to get back at him, leave him. Why play games ,they can hurt you more. If your not happy in this relationship why continue in it. I'm sure there are guys who would want to date you. Have pride in yourself. Dress nicely and always smile. Hang out with friend and have a good time.When your bf sees how happy you are without him and you look fabulous, you'll be getting back at him that way.
2006-09-10 18:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by Blah Blah Blah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first get a mind, then you can decide if you want to play mind games. But if you do get a working mind, you will see that mind games are childish and are a waste of time.
2006-09-10 18:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by itslate 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. If your a "master" at head games, why do you need the advice of a complete stragner?
2. Even better yet, why do you care about getting him back at all? Why not move on? Find someone else and move on. I seriously doubt he cares about you or your games.
2006-09-10 18:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. I don't really think i would want a BF like that. Its all about respect not head games. If you start then you sink to his level and obviously you don't like his level so here you go. DONT GO THERE. Peace and good luck.
2006-09-10 18:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Payback is such a big waste of time. I hope you two are happy together. Personally, I wouldn't give you more than 5 min of mine. Whoops! Times up!
2006-09-10 18:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you both play "let's grow up"!!! You're both childish and self-serving; wasting each others time with this b.s. GROW UP! Life is not about "mind games".
2006-09-10 18:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me you are playing the mind games not him...he didn't lie to you, but you basically punished him with sex for not spending saturdays with you...was he doing something else, have other plans.
2006-09-10 18:34:22 · answer #9 · answered by bryan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not the way to live your life.
2006-09-10 18:33:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋