Women, you could argue, are the strongest beings on this earth, but why do some fall into this trap and how hard is it to get out?
2006-09-10 18:20:32 · 24 answers · asked by rfilms 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a psychological trap. These women are more mentally abused than physically. They are (in most cases) convinced that they are worthless to anyone else; they are taught that they are ugly, unworthy, useless, etc. and the only one who wants them is the one abusing them. These women have had their self-confidence and their self-esteem beaten out of them. Their abuser convinces them that no one else will ever want them. It is a vicious, ugly place to be. Many women in this situation are even killed by the men who abuse them if they don't commit suicide first. It is very tragic. I'd like to see the men that do this to women publicly flogged. But then, I'm old fashioned.
2006-09-10 18:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Emm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of women fall into it, because at one point, the man made them feel great. They say they will change, and the womon believes him. He doesn't and its an undless cycle..ALSO i know of a few situations...where she had some mental disorders..where her dad beat her when she was little..and then she gets into a abusive relationship...then thinks she MUST deserve it for some reason or another. I completley agree with you..Women say they are the smarter..mentally stronger ect being on the earth....but then go and do **** like that..But also keep in mind that, thats only a few women that actually get themselves into that kinda of situation. I personally dont think women are any better then men...they both have their strong points..but have millions and millions of weakness'...
2006-09-10 18:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it becomes psychological, the men some how warp the womans brain into making her stay or physically threaten her or her family if she leaves. There are actually quite a few reasons. Also because they will also go through what is called the honeymoon phase where the man will say I'm sorry and buy her things and promise to never do it again and then he starts the whole cycle over again.
2006-09-10 18:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanie W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm there right now.... The guy is finally out of my house and I still love him... It's hard to let someone go, if the relationship started out fine then turned rocky... It's like; if you have a dog you love and have had for a while.. then the dog bites someone and you have to put it to sleep.. You still love the dog but you have to let it go...
A lot of time the abuser will have all the facials and the victim will have nothing without them... The women fears that.. I sure as hell do... but there is always help out there
2006-09-10 18:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are weakest vessels. They psychologically tend to be over powered by men. They are to be kept under control by their male partners to guide them on right path. Physically and mentally they are submissive and they usually submit before their male partners.No doubt we respect female very much. We say "Ladies First". In islamic culture we attach too much importance and respect to our women folk. We do not rebuke them or abuse them. We feel guilty ourselve if by chance we come on a point where husband and wife reach at the point of separation or divorce due to one reason or the other.
2006-09-10 18:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Women, you could argue, are the strongest beings on this earth..." Quit being sexist. I thought we were "equal," you bigoted hack. Oh yeah, your question: because they're weak and lack any kind of a personality, so they depend on stupid men to "complete them." I find it funny how feminists went from demanding equality to claiming superiority.
2006-09-10 18:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by Leroy Johnson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do women go back to men who physically and mentally abuse them?
because they want to believe the guy has/will change soon like he promised
because it strokes her ego somewhat to be begged for
because they miss the good times
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Women, you could argue, are the strongest beings on this earth, but why do some fall into this trap?
because they wish the good times were real
because they like the way they feel safe when the guy is protecting them with the same rage he used to harm them
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how hard is it to get out?
the deeper the love, the more passion, the harder to get out
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God loves them, they can get out.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/?qid=20060904152640AAqUAEv&r=w&pa=AptqD2bwHTHf6.mHY6Y1u5pQcKkBnu5SBDsbgFWNQ7F8aQ-- quick example as to what happens before and after you get out. (read askers last comment to his gf who answered his question)
2006-09-10 18:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of fear of being alone they feel vulnerable and therefore will be willing to do anything to make the pain go away. By the way women ARE the strongest beings but there are always runts in every species
2006-09-10 18:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because of low self-esteem. When you fall in love with an abuser, they don't just hit you...they convince you that you deserve everything you're getting, and that it will never get better - because you don't deserve anything better. It's manipulation of the sickest, most successful kind.
2006-09-10 18:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Discotheque 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They are usually end up going back because they believe that it will be different. Or they are in full blown denial. And every time they go back with hope that things will be different but it usually doesn't change, it just gets worse.
Love is blind.
Power struggles suck.
2006-09-10 18:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Joy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋