my ex and i were together but i never took it serious cuz i had gotten out of a long relationship and i just wanted to have a good time and she was cool as hell but i didnt wanna fall for another gurl again so i basically didnt give her the time she deserved i would chill with my friends all the time and not her she lived like 20 minutes away so it was a lil trip that i didnt wanna do unless i hadnt seen her the whole week so i pushed her away cuz i didnt wanna fall for another gurl then i started to fall in love with her then i found out that i was gonna go to college out of state for baseball and i noticed i loved her but it was too late she is talking to another guy and they like eachother but i love her and i know i hurt her and i messed up and i told her everything and that i messed up but she wont give me another chance also cuz im not around what should i do should i leave her alone or what plz help me out im going crazy i dont kno what to do and this is all my fault ???
2006-09-10 18:17:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not ur fault . . just wait 4 her to come around . . .
2006-09-10 18:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by ????a?? ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've told her exacly what you've just told us, then it's in her court. Sorry mate but unfortunately if you love someone you have to set them free. If the situation was reversed and you loved someone who wouldn't give you any attention....would you take them back??? She'll probably be happy with this new guy and that is what you should wish for her. Learn from this and next time you're with a girl...let her know how you feel before it's too late.
2006-09-10 18:23:29 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. It's called being selfish and taking someone for granted. Nothing you can do. Get over it, Dude. You lost this one. Just remember it when you run across another girl you like. You can't ignore them or shove them away and expect her to be there when you finally decide you have feelings for her. She was smart. You, my friend, need some real education in being a man. Godloveya.
2006-09-10 18:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt believe you...or trust you and doesnt want to try and go through the same thing over again. If she's really involved with someone it's probably too late to make actionable amends. But, you could try for however long you feel she stuck it out with you...good luck.
2006-09-10 18:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's not your fault, it's just that you wasn't really filling her at the time. But now she has moved on, so you need to move on too. I know that you are in love with her, but you have to move on.
2006-09-10 18:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by incredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to her, make her see how serious you are. She needs to see that she is still needed. Don't let any one talk you out of it, you may miss out on your 1 person to live. My boyfriends name is Christopher. I left him although, I might go back due to his name. Chris-stop-her. I just realized he is trying to stop me, and I am welcoming it. So go to her , hurry. Good Luck
2006-09-10 18:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rhonda M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you already far waway? Sounds you are losing her already..try to find someone closeby on your campus there. Im sorry but I think you shouldnt have pushed her away...
2006-09-10 18:23:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO JUST MOVE ON, SHE WITH SOMEONE ELSE
AND IT WOULD BE UNFAIR TO HIM TO TRY TO GET BACK
WITH HER. YOU CAN NOW LEARN FROM WHAT HAPPEN
WITH HER, SO THAT WHEN YOU FIND LOVE AGAIN YOU
'WILL APPRECIATE WHAT YOU HAVE. BECAUSE THEY]
SAY YOU NEVER NO WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL IT GONE.
2006-09-10 18:23:33 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur so selfish..good think she found another one....its all ur fault...
leave her alone and pray for her happiness...
she deserve that...
2006-09-10 18:22:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her, if she wants you she'll sweat you.
2006-09-10 18:20:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋