if a girl met u online and u go met her face to face u send abt 3 hours with her and u really like her and when u when u left from there she calls u and says i dont think it will work and dumps u would u be more hurt that she didnt give u chance r u would want aleast a chance to be with her and see if it could work
2006-09-10 17:52:39 · 31 answers · asked by sexy_cowgirl8321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way its not me but a guy friend who has this issuse im getting married jus wanted to no if ppl felt the some way has me
2006-09-10 17:58:57 · update #1
i jus think this girl should have give my guy friend a chance before she dumped him bc he real nice and everything and im not stressin and im not gay
2006-09-10 18:07:29 · update #2
i would think that i wasnt given a chance and that the person was very shallow. if they gave the impression that they did like you to your face then decided later that they didnt, i would be hurt, but its better to know sooner then later. i would just make sure that you were upfront and honest about why you felt that way.
2006-09-10 17:56:17 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how could she dump you if you just met. ANd yeah it always hurts when people dont like you. you start wondering whats wrong with you. Just remeber for every person that doesnt like you there is equally just as many people that will like you. You cant be liked by everyone. Take me for example, I am super hot, and have muslces. Some girls like me and some dont. My face is hot too, but the point is attractiveness is an opinion word, and beauty has no defenition for it is in the eye of the beholder.
2006-09-10 17:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you just weren't the person she was looking for.
It is ashame when people don't give it a chance and many do go on first meetings.
I'd say move on and find someone who does want you.
2006-09-10 17:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would still want to go to see if it worked out. It's worth it to know, otherwise you would always wonder. After internet people meet, it's normal to call it off if the physical attraction just wasn't there. That's life. Ya get up and keep move'in on.
2006-09-10 17:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by Justin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT REALLY DEPEND ON WHAT YOU WERE REALLY EXPECTING TO FIND WITH SOMEONE THAT YOU JUST
MET ONLINE OR ANYTHING ELSE. IT MAY JUST HAVE BEEN
SHE FELT THAT YOU AND SHE WAS DID NOT HAVE A LOT
OF THE SAME QUALTITIS THAT SHE WAS LOOKING FOR,
BUT DONT TAKE SO PERSONAL YOU WIN SOME LOSE
SOME BUT DONT GIVE UP. HANG IN THERE. THERE
IS MORE FISH IN THE SEA. THIS FISH JUST DID NOT
WORK OUT. BUT THERE PLENTY MORE.
2006-09-10 18:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sexy cowgirl... you are too sexy to be stressed out about that... There is plenty fish in the sea online... ifmthis one said they don't want to work it out with you, there was spmething they didn't appreciate about you - - - let it go... her loss. Don't give her the second chance to miss out on the great person you are. Remember... youre a sexy cowgirl... tell her to move along lil dawgie.
2006-09-10 17:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by Myzz Undastood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...If you were a guy (because I'm a girl), I would not be hurt nor disappointed that you would dump me, because since he can't spell worth a dime, it tells me much already about him! I think relieved would be more of an appropriate word.
2006-09-10 17:55:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i guess that i would want at least a chance to be with her and see if it could work but dont worry about it this girl could be someone u dont want to be friends with or she could be someone nice who knows dont feel hurt maybe she just didnt feel a connection dont wry u will find someone else i promise
2006-09-10 17:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by smart 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the real point...be mature enough to be honest with someone face-to-face...have some cahonies...and use tact...leave each other with some respect whether you hit it off or not...too much drama and disrespect now-a-days...
2006-09-10 17:58:14 · answer #9 · answered by noflacko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how things go. being online and face to face is different.
take it as it is , good that she's frank. you would do the same if she would to be you?
frankness and sinecerity in friendships are hard to find especially bet opp sex too
?
2006-09-10 18:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋