I always hear women say they are looking for mister right, the nice guy and where have they gone but they always seem to prefer or pick the bad boy?
2006-09-10 17:47:24 · 15 answers · asked by aztec_68 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
being a girl i hate to say this but honestly they are idiots and drama queens. these are the same women who weeks or months later are complaining that their boyfriend cheats on them, or doesn't pay enough attention to them or treat them right. look if you are a nice guy then that is there loss and you will find a girl who will appreciate having a nice guy. i know i appreciate mine.
2006-09-10 17:52:28 · answer #1 · answered by burn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like that...I don't like and will never pick a bad boy--they're too much trouble. I genuinely like nice guys and was lucky to find and meet one. Because there are so few nice guys around, some women make the unfortunate choice of picking up a jerk/bad boy.
2006-09-11 00:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cause they are so use to being mistreated that when the nice guy comes along it's hard for them to digest. Basically they become immune to it. They complain about wanting a good man because deep inside they really do, yet it's just hard for them to accept it when it happens. I think they begin to have trust issues, they have a hard time believing that they may have gotten Mr. Right. It's all because they have been hurt so many times, so I can actually understand where their coming from. I think they run to the bad boy simply out of comfort or because that's what they attract or vise versa...it's various reasons.
2006-09-11 00:55:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's because bad boys have that certain appeal to them. They don't really care what people think. I also think it's because girls like to think they can change people, and by being with the bad boy it gives them the chance to change that guy into a nice guy.
Girls like to think that they are going to be so special in a guys life that he will change anything to be with them. It ususally doesnt work out that way.
Not all girls say they want nice guys and then go for the bad ones. I wanted a nice guy and now I have him.
2006-09-11 00:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by laker_girl85 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls prefer the bad boys, they relish the intrigue of being ravaged by the bad boys, they feel that the good boys will not do the things to turn them on
2006-09-11 00:59:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bad boys are more fun >:) Girls like guys who are gentlemanly, who are 'nice' in all the right ways. But, the guys need to take initiative too, ya know? Be the Alpha Male! :D Be assertive, know what you want, and don't let anyone take advantage of you (or your girl).
Note, that doesn't not mean be bad *to* your girl. Girls who pick those kind of "bad boys"...I think they must have their own personal issues.
2006-09-11 00:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by Matichel 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In a primitive way, people want excitement and being with bad or rebellious people is more exciting. So they want a guy that's good to them but bad to everyone else, but guys like that don't really exist.
2006-09-11 00:59:21 · answer #7 · answered by CKApple 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Women want a nice guy they CAN'T push around.
2006-09-11 00:52:57 · answer #8 · answered by tooyoung2bagrannybabe 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are probably refering to yourself as the nice guy. Maybe other people don't see you how you see yourself and you're just an asshole always judging women for picking certain men? Just a guess.
2006-09-11 00:49:28 · answer #9 · answered by itslate 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sometmes "bad boys" are bad to the outside world but when they are one on one with the girl they are great guys and sweet as anything. i got one of those.
2006-09-11 00:51:32 · answer #10 · answered by cecejrg 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋