I stopped answering when he calls, he left a message saying "you could have called me for my birthday, but that's alright though (sounding sad)." I still miss him, I kind of felt bad. Was he sad, or just wanting to talk to me?
2006-09-10 17:35:05 · 20 answers · asked by Casey T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My answer would be "Why should I have called you on your birthday?, We are no longer together...we do not have a relationship"
My Ex said something like that to me and said "we are friends aren't we?" And I said "no you are my EX husband, my EX... that is what EX means...we are no longer in any kind of realtionship...Call your girlfriend"
2006-09-10 17:39:18 · answer #1 · answered by Emme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to get back together, ignore this. He sounds like he regrets breaking up, and is not enjoying being single.
Break ups are always hard, but if you were ignoring his calls in the first place, there must have been a reason. If you're making a break, make it a clean break, continue not answering his calls and delete his messages without listening to them. It sounds harsh, but that's the best way to move past him and keep yourself sane.
Of course you miss him, you were in a relationship and so must have cared about him. So, if it's over leave it as over, but if you want him back it sounds like you have an opening. Remind yourself why you guys split up and why you weren't talking to him. If it still seems like the sort of thing that you can't live with, stick with your principles and spend some time healing.
2006-09-10 17:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if you are in another relationship or why you aren't together any longer. If you aren't together because he was a cheating person, didn't keep his word, couldn't hold a job or was abusive, then no matter if he is sad or not that you didn't call him, you did the right thing if your relationship was a negative past. Sometimes it's easier for us to go to what is in our comfort zone OR want to control situations.
To be specific, he more than likely was bored and was feeling a bit melancholy so decided to play with your mind. Don't fall for it, next time you see him acknowledge his call and leave it at that.
Good luck!
2006-09-10 17:42:50 · answer #3 · answered by Baseball inquisitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's laying a guilt trip on you. You guys need to agree on your post romantic relationship. I mean, are you going to remain friends, & call on birthdays, etc? Or are you going to make it clean, & never call or see each other again? Or something else in between.
If you both have already agreed to make a clean break, & he's not holding up to his end of the deal, then he's just being a nuisance & should be treated as such.
2006-09-10 17:44:01 · answer #4 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a guilt trip to me. but you should ask him we are no longet together why should i call you on your b day for? be nice about it though. he may want you back there are so many reasons why he would call you he might just want to tell his boys that you still want him or somehting stupid like that. or he could be jelous bc you have someone else and he dont or you are not sad about the break up or something.
well hope this helps.
2006-09-10 17:45:52 · answer #5 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to guilt trip you. If he's your ex then that says it all. You don't owe him a phone call or anything else. If you do miss him tell him that you'd like to see him. Or send him a B-day card in the mail. .But if you two are truly broken up you really are not expected to acknowledge b-days or any other holiday for that mattewr.
2006-09-10 17:41:41 · answer #6 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he wanted to talk to you so that you could say you are sorry for not calling him on his birthday. Even if you are exs you could still say happy birthday. He might not have been told that by anyone all day long but knew he could relie on you.Give him a call!
2006-09-10 17:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat19582002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man you're bold. You don't have to talk to him everyday but you could have at least called on his BIRTHDAY. He misses you and now he's even more depressed because he thinks you don't even give a dam. Obviously you do give a dam because you on yahooanswers asking about him. It's not to late to wish him a belated birthday.
2006-09-10 17:45:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 00:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, MAYBE YOU SHOULD HAVE CALLED HIM FOR HIS B-DAY... ESPECIALLY IF YOU MISS HIM AND PROBABLY STILL WANT TO BE WITH HIM. LIFE IS TOO SHORT TO PLAY GAMES LIKE THAT...EITHER YOU'RE GOING TO BE TOGETHER AND WORK OUT YOUR DIFFERENCES OR YOU'RE NOT...MAKE A DECISION AND STOP ACTING CRAZY!
2006-09-10 17:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by CHASE_ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋