We started going out after a 2 mth break(we were together 1st time 4 7 mths) We have been back together since July, it has been good. But someting recently changed. He is not outgoing &does not deal well in social situations. I am a social butterfly & it drives me crazy. We are in love. He just attended a wedding w/ me. I know this is crazy, but he was sitting at reception & I looked over & he was digging in his nose. Not just the little itch/quick scratch, but digging, several times. This was the final straw. He is generally a very clean person as am I, but that is just not acceptable. I am 36, divorced, 1 kid & he is 32, was a virgin when I met him. He is socially inept and is totally different when alone with me. I have really been able to bring him out when we are alone. In social situations, he is so strange & introverted. I just don't want to deal w/ it anymore & we live too far away (1 hr) & I don't want any more kids, we haven't talked marriage, but I feel i have to end it now
2006-09-10 17:32:59 · 13 answers · asked by pinklady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him, dude...don't dig in your snot hole when we are in public! Catch him in the act and say "No honey, we don't pick our noses in the presence of others."
OR
"You know this is the reason I can't be with you anymore"
2006-09-10 17:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think there's a right way to do it....if you really want to do it which obviously you do then just tell him what you just told all of yahoo..... I personally think that you are finding excuses to brake up with him... some that sound good because in reality your not in love with him anymore...... nobody is perfect... maybe he doesn't do well socially but hey not everyone is a "social butterfly" I'm sure he cant stand alot of your sh** but since he loves you he tends to overlook ALL of your imperfections.... Think about it!!!
2006-09-10 17:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I said to my ex-boyfriend 3 weeks ago when I broke up with him, "I am not a masochist and I am not coming back for more". NEXT ... You can do better believe, I am 37 never married and no kids but you have a little one to think of. I am sure you are divorced for a reason and you want something better for you and your family.
Good luck.
2006-09-10 17:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by reheaded_babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a relationship it truly is very dysfunctional, i do not imagine your going to love my opinion yet honesty's what you requested for and honesty is strictly what i'll provide you with so please don't experience indignant with the help of what I say, on and off relationships maximum persons of time they in no way artwork why? because one minute it truly is on besides the undeniable fact that the subsequent minute something is going incorrect it truly is off, he (your boyfriend) has his own themes to administration one of them is the dishonest situation there ought to be some reason that he's doing this he can't basically cheat for no reason those who're in love and satisfied of their relationships do not cheat, he's acquainted with that he has his administration over you he's acquainted with that when he begs and pleads you to stay that you''ll comply and stay with him even in spite of the reality that you know it truly is not any longer a strong relationship or perhaps as i imagine area of you needs to stay i imagine area of you needs to bypass on and that i imagine area of you is acquainted with that there is someone more desirable proper available for you than him, i imagine you employ this guy as an excuse no longer to bypass on possibly there is a few kind of emotional attachment that you've with him that you do not imagine you'll discover with every person else besides the undeniable fact that the way this relationships stepping into case your no longer damaged up this 365 days i'm particular it received't very last yet another the way that it truly is going, how did you know it truly is not any longer going to artwork with somebody else? you've not even given every person else a risk so till you do this you don't know.
2016-11-26 00:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU WANT TO END THE RELATONSHIP
BECAUSE THINGS ARE NOT WORKING OUT,BUT THE QUESTION IS WHY DID YOU GET BACK WITH HIM AFTER
YOU BROKE UP THE FIRST TIME. THEY SAY A PERSON'
DOES NOT CHANGE. WHAT YOU SEE IS WHAT YOU GET
IF YOU KNEW THIS IN BEGINNING, THEN WHY GO BACK
TO THE SAME PROBLEM.
2006-09-10 17:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it's over you are no longer happy and that you have to look out for not just you but your child and don't want anyone to get hurt.
2006-09-10 17:38:30 · answer #6 · answered by movin12006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him to a nice place. Talk to him, tell him things have changed and that you just arent ready for a relationship.
2006-09-10 17:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by nonya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to end it, just end it. Don't make it personal about him but talk about you and your feelings, why you don't see this relationship is working for you.
2006-09-10 17:35:10 · answer #8 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get back to me when you want to break up for the third time.
2006-09-10 17:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Contesta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, then end it. Just tell him that it's not working out and you are not happy. End of story.
2006-09-10 17:37:01 · answer #10 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋