How can i build more confidence in meeting girls?

Question

I dont know what to say, and if i say the wrong thing or pause im afraid ill get rejected. I hate being rejected.

Answer 1

i think we are all a little nervous when we meet someone for the first time. we are not sure what to say to them and are afraid of making a fool of ourselves.

just be yourself and relax the best you can. if you get rejected then she wasnt the right one for you. the more you are out and about the less nervous you will become.

maybe you could do some self confidence classes that will help you build up your self esteem. good luck.

Answer 2

I will give you the keys to success if you can do this one thing?

Promise me, you will stop being afraid of living life.

Remember when you first went to school, the first day, how afraid were you? You remember 5 days later, it was no big deal, just a routine.

Here's what you need to do, the next two weeks. Every day you need to walk up and talk to (3-5 girls) daily. Remember to have no expectations of how the conversation will go. Just let it happen.

Here's an opening line to say.
Walk up to the girl you see, "say, hi, I'm (name) what's your name? After she says, ask her some questions and remember to pay attention to what she says, will be the key of what to say next. Listen to her fully, then ask a question about her topic's.

After you practice this for two weeks, ask your self how confident you are about walking up and talking to anyone.

You should be a pro by then. It's not the technique that makes you great, it's the repetition which trains you how.

Just don't give up or let fear get in the way of what you want.

Answer 3

Every time I see a young, attractive lady I would like to meet at a bar or club, I always stand or sit down in her direct view. The next thing I do is make direct eye contact with her and smile slightly. If she smiles back, I know she is onto me. And if she looks down or blushes lightly, I wait for about a minute and see if she steals another glance at me. If she does, I know she wants me to approach her.

This simple eye contact test works fabulously because unlike using a pick-up line, it does not put anyone on the spot. By being respectful to the girl and subtle about my pick up attempt, I can now approach any woman without the fear of getting rejected.

Answer 4

The best thing to do is to not let your fear hold you back, just go for it! Just go try to meet girls that maybe you aren't looking to go out with and talk to them, just start out making new friends that way you won't feel so much pressure. Make sure you look your best and check yourself out in the mirror and remember your best qualities before you go out to meet people. And make sure you smile, be polite and think of something nice to say, and I'm sure you'll do great!

Answer 5

close the toy closet, say I'm gonna try to be friend with whomever I interact with (Cute Girls) this month, and try to have a stopless interesting but smooth/ "sincere" somehow and -only somehow- happy feels like conversation.. u k W I mean, and work on NOT beeg the little cute boy.. BE the responsible solid man

Answer 6

It sounds nevertheless yet going out with a mate. (dont even have tobe a sturdy mate) yet a mate. it extremely is cocky and intensely constructive helped me. i'm 14 woman and now I even have the main suitable self assurance you could desire to have confidence. its un believeable how a lot they might rubb off on you. attempt to no longer get embarresed via something they do however, merely have one night the place you merely pass alongside with it. in case you get me? x

Answer 7

just think most girls you will meet and get rejected by you probably wont see again

Answer 8

who doesn't hate being rejected LOL

Answer 9

what have you got to loose if she says no, your not losing her cause you never had and if you never had then there is nothing to loose right...go for it all the time just be smart about it

Answer 10

You need to **** a few.Confidence automatically comes once you convince a few women to part their legs for you to enter.