2006-09-10 17:18:41 · 26 answers · asked by annabelleantoineraj02 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You know, one of the biggest threats to relationships these days is the internet. It is actually said now that sites such as classmates.com have been contributed to many divorces, because out of curiosity people have looked up and contacted their first loves.
2006-09-10 17:36:52 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Cut it off! Every affair starts with something innocent... be very careful. If you get too involved you will not be able to think clearly so do your clear thinking now. Push this thing to the end. What if you get involved? What if you have an affair and are found out. Is this a price you are willing to pay? It will cost your family, your security, if can even cost your job and so on. The grass is NEVER greener. I thought about that for a long time before writing the NEVER but I think it stacks up.
If you want to know about the pain that can be caused by this... just ask those who have been through it... I can put you in touch with some
2006-09-11 00:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by revlex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think emailing each other is a crime, but you have to keep in mind, what you had back then is over. You were both younger and in a different place in life. It never would behoove you or he to think nothing but a fantasy could ever work now. I have been up and down this street, please, work on what is lacking in your marriage try to fix it, if not, move on, but the ex boyfriend, just a fantasy of what might have been. You are too smart for this.
2006-09-11 00:35:27 · answer #3 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you guys are just friends then that's alright, but let your spouse know. If you guys are trying to start a romantic relationship then that could be a problem if you do not first end your current relationship. Are you not happy with your spouse? Thing about your situation before you do anything unreasonable.
2006-09-11 00:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Pure Diamond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, why not? If you had a bond there, it's hard to dismiss someone out of your life like that! As long as you both know the boundaries and don't cross them! I'm in a similar situation, so I understand how you feel! Good luck. XX
2006-09-11 00:21:38 · answer #5 · answered by Emma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not ok and you know that. How would you feel if your hubby was emailing an old girlfriend? I think you're playing with his trust. You'd better back off, honey, before it's too late.
2006-09-11 01:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm--I think if there were nothing to worry about, you wouldn't be thinking about it.A good guage is whether you are telling your spouses, and telling them all there is to tell, including frequency of contact. Would you feel comfortable about them reading the correspondence? If no, then no. Is not "ok". Is courting trouble, and you need to look at why you might be doing that. :)
2006-09-11 00:24:05 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say if you are being honest about it with your partner about emailing and there are no problems in your marriage or there marriage. If you become uncomfortable talking to them and feel that you are cheating on your partner then I wouldn't.
2006-09-11 00:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by raddude62896 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way.You marry you should be happy.Maybe if you continue to do this then you might have an affair.Then you will mess up your marriage just for a fling.
2006-09-11 00:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Vague question. Are you romantically e-mailing each other? Do you see that coming? Then NO , it's not OK, unless you are not happy with your current spouse.
2006-09-11 00:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by Life after 45 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋