ive been depressed for quite some time lately.i have one major issue and i dont know how 2 resolve it.
2006-09-10 16:46:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Actually it may be atypical problem to every one. ive been in love with this guy for 4 years. i dont know if he is devoted enough to marry me
2006-09-10 16:59:21 · update #1
it is a time for reflection
endless drama clouds your consciousness
too much noise will overwhelm your senses
continual input will obscure your genuine insight
do not substitute sensationalism for learning
allow regular time for silent reflection
turn inward and digest what has happened
let the senses rest and grow still
let go of your superficial mental chatter and obsessions
pay attention to your whole body's reaction to this situation
take the time to reflect
see more clearly what is essential in yourself and your friend
Be Still
speak rarely and briefly about questioning your relationship
follow your inner wisdom
what do you deeply feel?
appearing foolish does not matter
your stillness will overcome your friends agitation
do you not want your friend to trust you
trust your friend
imagine that you are a midwife; you are assisting at someone else's birth
do good without show or fuss
facilitate what is happening between you and your friend rather than what you think ought to be happening
take the lead
lead so your friend is helped
yet still free and in charge
and when your friend finally comes around with the ultimate expression of Love, your friend will rightly say: "We did it ourselves!"
to know yourself takes wisdom
be at peace with yourself
do not fear of losing your long time friend
to manage your own life takes true power
return again and again to an awareness of what is actually happening...so that you might clarify and enlighten not only yourself; but, your friend as well
you will experience harmony ( and devotion )
2006-09-12 05:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Guillermo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will agree with b_friskey.... You do possess the answer yourself. In fact, the "vibe" I get is that your are aware of it too. You are worried about facing it without some objective opinion to back up your own feeling; afraid to trust yourself.
Seek within and follow your own feelings in this matter. I won't promise it will be an easy path, but, if you're true to yourself and to your heart, you'll find the path that is right for you.
Just remember.... Sitting on the fence about any matter is always a precarious and painful place to be. Aside from feeling unsure of which way to go, as long as you sit there you'll always have a fence post up your ***. Good luck.
2006-09-11 01:49:05 · answer #2 · answered by Shaman 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you do know how to resolve it, just wait until you are in a relaxed state and ask...It might not be an easy solution, or one that you are willing to do at this time, but you DO know how to resolve the situation.
2006-09-10 16:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by b_friskey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show me your palm... ah... a problem with no solution is not a problem... don't worry too much... things aren't permanent... your situation will change...
Edit: I see, ever tried asking him what he wants with his life and what is he planning to do? You don't have to ask him to marry you directly. Just say you want to know how he feels and see if both of you can go the same way.
2006-09-10 16:50:29 · answer #4 · answered by Ttraveller 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋