My wife asks me if she is fat, I dont know how to answer this?

Question

I know she is overweight, I want her to loose some weight, but I dont want to sound as if I wont love her if she keeps gaining weight.

Answer 1

Just said she is beautiful in whatever weight she maybe..and will always love her for herself..

Answer 2

Well your are in a tight bind now arn't you!
My guess is that if you have use of a computer and e-mail than so does she.


Midnight, mail all these yahoo answers plus your question to her.
Then get home from work at the same time or less than you know she will read what you e-mailed her!
Have Roses, and good wine, ready, tell her you adore her as is.
If she chooses to loose weight, then you will do it together. Even if you cooking healthy meals and making her lunch is you contributuin. because you only weigh 135 lbs.
All help is appreciated.
Then let her know you l;oved her so much that you asked for help from an annonymous world of nice people. The answers are loving and supportive either way.So the choice is hers, and you worship every ounce of her!

Answer 3

Do not ever answer this question, its a trick.

Show your wife that you love her, learn a sensual massage, draw her a bath, pamper her with a facial.

Go for a walk every night in the moonlight, hold hands and talk. Tell her you want to take a cooking class together, then take something that is about cooking lighter meals, or something healthy. Don't just sit around eating and watching the tv.

Focus on yourself, tell her you are worried about getting high blood pressure, or diabetes and you want to be more active and healthy. Ask for her help.

Be patient, be gentle, lavish her with attention but for pete's sake never ever answer that question.

Answer 4

tell her she is fat and you will be sleeping on the sofa babe.

don't matter what the truth is she is female and it feels terrible to hear it from your man. I know cause I have the womanly parts to prove it.

You can say you are concerned for her health and would like to help her by the two of you getting a daily walk or some other exercise to be healthy.

My hubbie and I are both in the need to loose weight. My problem is my thyroid has decided not to work and the meds are not helping. Hubbie likes to eat in bed (candy) and I have lost my will power due to my health. I am getting better, just wish he would stop eating junk. Does no good for me to ask nicely for my health sake - that man loves his candy above all else. Aren't you glad it isn't your fault she needs to shed some tonage?

Answer 5

You will never know unless you ask her. Not aking will keep this question in your heart only.But nothing to help your wife out If you feel it is a health issue or eating issue Are willing to stand by her on either. Some ways to help out is simple a walk a day with wife and husband in hand keeps the doc. away.The way food is prepared share your thoughs baby lets have this today. Purchase cook book on low and healthly eating.Some you can buy at any store that can cost oniy 1.00

Answer 6

Say the truth say honey you are beautiful to me but yes you could stand to lose some weight .Not just for looking nice but for your health because I want to have you around as long as possible.Then be supportive dont hound her every time she slips up but encourage healthy food choices fruits and vegetables.In the end lying to her is wrong because if you keep saying you look fine one day she will catch a glimpse of her self in the mirror and say oh my gosh he is lying to me how did I get so big? It sounds like you do love your wife so kindhearted honesty is always best.

Answer 7

Well that's a good one, if she is unhappy about her weight and tells you that,you tell her that you love her no matter what she looks likes, but maybe set there and tell her that if she keeps gaining weight it can kill her and, Tell her how much you love and make sure you tell her how you feel about it because maybe there is something on her mind and can't talk to you about it so she turns too food.If you love her you will be there for her,she may need a moderator.I wish you luck let us know how it turns out....

Answer 8

The answer is always no!!! But if she does need to loose weight then bring up ideas that aren't directly refering to loosing weight. Like suggest to talk a walk after dinner. or say the you want to start eating more healthy.

Answer 9

yeah if she thinks she's fat she'll lose the weight no matter what. Just tell her you love her no matter what size she is. That will give her the confidence she needs to lose the wieght and she won't resent you while she's doing it. DON"T call her fat or even hint toward it. I just had a baby and still have the exta poundage 3 months later,(I'm not talking 60 pounds just 15 or so) I want to lose the weight but if my husband even hinted to that he wanted me to i'd kill him. I know I need to lose the wieght and when i ask him if i'm fat i want to hear "no" as in "no hunny you are still sexy to me" because i know that a little weight hasn't made me unattractive toward him I just like to hear it once in awhile.

Answer 10

It's good that you care about your wives feelings. Let her know you care about her health also. I am saying this from a women's stand point. Tell her you love her and then talk about walking together or eating right. It's hard for one person on there own to loose the weight it helps to know you have someone supporting you. Good luck.

Answer 11

Tell her she IS NOT FAT whenever she asks! She does NOT want you to tell her the truth!! Seriously! If she has gained weight and you want her to lose it the ONLY way you can help accomplish that is to get her to start exercising WITH YOU. Meaning you need to tell her that YOU have gained weight or want to get in better shape or if you already exercise you want her to join you.