i just posted another post about my situation with my sons dog. now my wife is saying that it is my fault because i have brought bad luck on the family and i am a bad person. i am not perfect, but i dont feel that i am a really bad person. i dont do drugs and drink or beat my wife i provide well for them and my wife doesnt even have to work. so why is she so cruel to me????????????????
2006-09-10 16:07:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pets ➔ Dogs
It is not your fault.You didn't run the dog over, nor did you wish for harm to come to your sons dog. Your wife is not dealing well with her grief, and wants to blame someone. Unfortunately it is you. I can't help you with how to deal with your wife's reaction to an accident, but I can assure you that it is not your fault.
2006-09-10 17:22:39 · answer #1 · answered by blindfredd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your wife need to sit down and talk things out. You need to find out what she feels makes you the bad person. Don't guess at what she thinks makes you bad. Ask her a straight forward question and get a straight forward answer. If it something you've done that you may not be aware of then fix it. If she can't give you a straight answer get her some help. She may have issues with your relationship that your not aware of. Sometimes the more you do for someone the more they expect even if it is your wife. What does she do for you?
2006-09-11 12:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by purrfectsandcastle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its nobodys fault, things happen and that happened. Dont worry about your wife and kid, they will get over it. They are just in pain for the lose of you dog. When my Alaskan Malamute (Dogo) ran away from home one night and was found next day half dead because he got run over i blamed it on my dad, but now i understand that it was just something that happened and I know my dad would have never ever let the dog out if he could. Dont sweat it and try to understand them
2006-09-10 23:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you posted this in the wrong section. This is the dog section.
Your wife is cruel because you allow her to be cruel to you. Tell her it is inappropriate and get some family counseling.
2006-09-10 23:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you .Sometimes people point fingers at the ones that they are closer too because they can .She is just full of anger and wants you to feel as bad as she does it will pass .we all do it one time in are life or another to someone we love .Just remmeber its not your fault .
2006-09-12 19:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by deedee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is obveously taking advantage of your good nature, your not cursed or a bad person.
Your wife should be ashamed of herself, she has taken you for granted and you should be treated better.
You teach people how to treat you, dont let her treat you like a pig.
2006-09-10 23:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by Krystle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she wants to much tell her u cant handle this and if ur so bad why is she still around??? if she thinks she can do better tell her go a head. it aint ur fault at all
2006-09-10 23:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by mrs nevz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad luck as if , you are not bad just trying to help , she is a brat
2006-09-10 23:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by iamblessed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because thats the way women are. You treat them well, and they crap on ya.
2006-09-10 23:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he a pup? if so he probably see's you as a play toy. Stnad firm with him
2006-09-10 23:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by princessmallory10162002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋