just recently, i noticed a girl. she looked cute.she is a bookworm. she has a good personality and thats why i like her. we hung out but it was boring. she and i have nothing in common in that she like the things that i don't. i like her because she's cofident in the way she looks and how she acts. should i give it another go and whut shoulde we do. when should i tell her that i like her and want her to be mai gf. this is not a crush so don't think of it this way. by doing whut things should i do to make her like me back. i need help and fast. should i go after her now before its too late, and if i do whut should i say, i'm shy
2006-09-10 16:06:27 · 14 answers · asked by john g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you find her boring than why continue your pursuit? Not fair to her and you are shortchanging yourself. Find someone who is a close match in physical appearance but who can match your personality and likes and dislikes more closely.
2006-09-10 16:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was like you at one time till I thought about it and the only way to change is to do something toally not yourself about the situation you want to change.
Since the girl you like is a bookworm Ok no problem write her a note telling her that you like her and would really like to go out on a date with her or go steady or just be friends if not bf / gf
and give her the note then the ball is in her court to talk to you if she is interested she will talk to you if not move on but do not give it to her and then not show up any more.
2006-09-10 23:17:48 · answer #2 · answered by Paul G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all if shes a book worm then start tring to check the books out that she likes before her that way she will will want to seek you!step one make her search.then you need to stop begging her so much.thats step two leave space.now you need DONT STALK HER! but notice a little bit more about her than before.that would be step three analize.step four is easyask to borrow a book and mabe leave a specal note .that step is called getting closer.and if you notice her eyes looking @ you dont be afraid make contact.but not feirce contact a soft look. then you might get her after you^^
2006-09-10 23:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun advise u to "go" for her....like u said u both hv nthg in common, how to share or rather live with some1 tat u hv ntg in common? U r attracted to her good personality and this is wont work out out to b love. U both can b v good friend but it wont turn out as couple cos couple need to share their lifestyle...
2006-09-10 23:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude if yall have nothing in common and your first outing was total trash why would want to do that again? if you feel like it is important to make this girl yours then dont be shy just be yourself and ask her to a scary movie.
2006-09-10 23:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by class of 2010!!! rock on 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok the first thing that u have to make her love u like romance words and dont ever make her feel that u want her body before her heart u must to make her feel safe really they need it on the first try to make her go with u in aconverstion and talk to her normal dont make her feel that u like her go with her every where she want try it atlast be romantic
2006-09-10 23:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by KILLLLLER_2099 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort of have the same problem. Just do something about it. You'll regret it like I'm going to.
2006-09-10 23:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretend to read intellectual books, MAKE her notice you.....then ask her to a simple dinner or lunch.......that when you give her your number.....and ta da......it either will or won't work out good luck
2006-09-10 23:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has probably already made up her mind about you. At any rate, tell her you're rich. Then you'll get her.
2006-09-10 23:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by eskimo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things done in haste are done in waste.
2006-09-10 23:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Spann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋