am 12 and i havent got my first kiss,and i dont even have a boyfriend!!!that is too lame.
2006-09-10 16:02:10 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Didn't get mine until I was 14, and there's nothing too weird about that. Relax and take your time: everything will happen when you're ready.
2006-09-10 16:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People make kissing out to be a big deal-especially at your age these days. It shouldn't be a big deal at all. Most people just kiss because of peer pressure or feel they have to to be considered "cool" Just ignore it. There is no law that says you have to kiss or be kissed by a certain age. It should be different for everyone. You will kiss when you are absolutely ready and the time is right and it should be with someone who you love so that it is more special. Your boyfriend should not make a huge deal out of it, and if he does and tries to pressure you into kissing him and you dont want to, then don't do it. I'm 19 and I still havent kissed anyone yet, and I'm not ashamed of it either.
2016-03-27 06:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. what significance do you attach to a first kiss and to a boyfriend. Best work on something you're really good at (academics, sports, socio-civic activties). Excelling in something fills in that self-confidence. You're still young, so much to do other than wait around for a boy. Some of the most successful women today don;t have boyfriends. No, this is not the single-since-birth slogan. All I'm saying is take time to appreciate yourself so that you won't need to go after a person who might fool you into thinking that they see what a wonderful person you are when in fact, all they want is to take advantage of you (and this goes for all genders,lol!). That plus, having no boyfriend is NOT lame. Give yourself time to fly.
2006-09-10 16:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nadz U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear, don't let society change you like that! Being 12 and not having a kiss is -good- not bad! Don't go that route, it's a bad route to take.
Save yourself for somebody who truely deserves it. I didn't think about kissing and that junk until I was like 16. I got picked on for it yeah, and I still have my virginity which makes me unpopular. But that also means a whole lot of guys respect me because I don't spread my legs for anybody who wants some.
2006-09-10 16:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so hard on yourslef. You are only 12. There is no reason to be in such a rush, sweetie. The right kiss will come when the time and boy are right. Don't worry. I know you are anzious, but I promise, it will be well worth the wait. Enjoy your youth and don't be insuch a rush to grow up!
2006-09-10 16:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by robyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not lame at all. Why rush things? When you meet the right guy it'll happen. Don't just do something because everyone "says they are doing something" Many times people make things up to seem popular. Don't believe everything you hear.
2006-09-10 16:04:25 · answer #6 · answered by DNBursky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 12.
You have to grow up first. You don't want to be pregnant by the time you're 15 right?
2006-09-10 16:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too young. Probably 15 would be about the right age.
2006-09-10 16:04:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's ppl that go through high school without their first kiss. now that is lame, and ur in like what 6th grade? ur not even a teen yet.
2006-09-10 16:03:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have nothing to worry about the time will come and it will just make it more special because you have been waiting for it for a while now dont worry about it u have no hurry to get in the dating world trust me its not that good well it all depends then again
2006-09-10 16:05:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋