clear me up on dating
i am 13
what shouldwe do at the lake
what kind of movies should we watch
sleepovers
when to make out
NO ANSWERS SAYING I SHOULD NOT DATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-10 15:42:01 · 8 answers · asked by king cobra 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you shouldn't date - and if you are having SLEEPOVERS with the opposite sex...I hope you have a job because you are going to, sooner or later, get to pay child support.
2006-09-10 15:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by doc 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ummm...
I think you aren't too young to date and you should, if it's what you want, I think it is good that u are actually kind enough to try and ask instead of ruining the whole date, at the lake just flirt, you know pick her up and (gently) toss her in the water then get her back up again and just smile.
watch funny movies or the scary ones usually get the girl to hold your hand and you can seem like mr.hero, so yeah, ummm, no sleepovers, make out when you r both ready, you'll know your eyes will meet, and the timing will be somewhere quiet, maybe some music, but not seductive music, you are to young to take it any further, but nice music, maybe her fav. band, then if its right she will usually make it easier for you both
Jalea
2006-09-10 22:49:53 · answer #2 · answered by LuckyCharm17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about dating...different people like different things. You can also date{or SEE} more than one person at a time.So make sure you make this clear to all of them that you are dating..If you are just dating dont have sleepovers..this sends the wrong message and next thing you know they assume you are in a real relationship and not just testing the waters..If you find you and one of your dates are getting along particlarly well and you really like one alot..throw the book away and have a real relationship. Like I tell my older kids there is going out{on dates} and going out,out{relationship}
2006-09-10 22:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Spinning Times LLC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the lake swim or have a picnic.
Watch G rated movies, you are too young for others.
No sleepovers with girls, until you get married, dear.
Be careful making out it can lead to more.
Go on G rated dates, child, until you are married or over 18.
You should never have sex with any girl you do not want to be the mother of your kids.
God sees everything you do.
2006-09-10 22:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by shepherd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
swimming is fun, if it's chilly then make a fire and bring some marshmellows.
don't watch any movies with sexually explict things in them, except maybe some comedies, horror movies are good, she may want you to put your arm around her to keep her safe when she's scared ;)
sleepovers i don't think is a good idea, wait a couple years.
making out, well, just when the time is right, you'll know it too. she'll look at you and lean in or something of that sort.
2006-09-10 22:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, just be nice. You don't want her thinking you're a jerk decades after you've broken up. Seriously, talk. Just that. Get to know the girl you're with. Movies? Ask her. She may want to see something. It's ok to discuss that if you're friends. Personally, I wuldn't recommend sleepovers and make-outs on a first date (it sounds like it's your first). Best stay on the safe side for now.
2006-09-10 22:46:48 · answer #6 · answered by Nadz U 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-10 22:46:21 · answer #7 · answered by Angelic Messanger 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say....
1) I dunno go swimming? Campfires are always nice
2) I like scary movies, but whatever you like is fine...
3)No sleepovers...I wouldn't.
4)I dunno...
2006-09-10 22:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋