I dont know,but latly I get the feeling that my mom hates me or something.She always puts me down&crtisizes me& no matter what I do its never good enough or its not nearly as good as she would do it.& Shes been losing weight& it seems like shes shoving it in my face.How shes "lost 2 pants sizes".Its really frustrating&kinda heartbreaking to be treated that way by your own mother.
2006-09-10 15:34:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I dont know,but latly I get the feeling that my mom hates me or something.She always puts me down&crtisizes me& no matter what I do its never good enough or its not nearly as good as she would do it.& Shes been losing weight& it seems like shes shoving it in my face.How shes "lost 2 pants sizes".& shes constantly putting down the fact that im "gothic"& "not like other girls".Its really frustrating&kinda heartbreaking to be treated that way by your own mother.
2006-09-10 15:49:03 · update #1
Moms can't hate their kids! I am sure she loves you with all her heart! I know lately I've been riding my 15 year old daughter pretty bad. I'm always telling her she has too much make-up on, her shirt is too low, pants too tight, room is a mess...................
I think you get it! My reasoning is that I'm getting scared that she is growing up and I feel like she is making wrong choices. So when I say these things it's not because I don't love her it's that I'm nervous. I think your mom is too. Talk to her & tell her how you feel. You will feel soooooo much better. take care sweetie
2006-09-10 15:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by LG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt she hates you. I don't mean to bad mouth my mom, it just sounds like she needs someone to belittle. A lot of people are like that and a lot of people choose their kids to use as a verbal punching bag. Then again, you say that this is something that's just started. How is she losing the weight? Diet and exercize? Or is there more to it? Some type of 'medicine' perhaps? I don't know what the cause of it is. While the root of this problem is important, it's equally important that you bring this issue up with her and explain to her just how much it gets to you the way she's talking lately. Don't do this in the middle of an argument. Do it when there's no bad blood between the two of you that way it's not just shrugged off as a 'heat of the moment' thing to say. Good luck.
2006-09-10 15:38:26 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she doesn't hate you. She is probably very crabby from losing weight. That happens to a lot of people when they suffer in order to get thin. It could also be the beginning of menopause. When women go through that change in their life, when their periods get very irregular, they get hot flashes, and just feel kind of ugly... they tend to be very crabby.
Tell her how you feel. Ask her why she's taking it out on you. And let her know that you understand she isn't perfect. Mothers are just people. You are getting old enough now to understand that.
2006-09-10 15:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when stuff like this happens you take it with a grain of salt and just realize your mother loves you but she is got some kinda self esteem issue with herself .. so in the meantime you make yourself happy and do things that make you feel good and when she tries to bring you down you keep your head held high and be a better person inside... no matter what.. when you look in the mirror say to yourself "your a better person" and just move on.. good luck with that okay
2006-09-10 15:38:54 · answer #4 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt that she hates you. Maybe she just does not know any other way. It could be that is how her mother treated her. Some time when she isn't angry ask her if she hates you and tell her why you feel that she does. She may not even realize what she is doing to you.
2006-09-10 15:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by BUPPY'S MEME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your mom hates, I think she just wants you to be better and do more. I know this because there was a time when my mom would talk to me any kind of way..So I hope you guys can work it out and if you must just sit down and have a one-on-one talk so maybe you can work things out...
2006-09-10 15:45:56 · answer #6 · answered by poetchicka2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she doesn't hate you maybe shes stressed out and she's pushing it out on you.. not to say that thats right but some people do that and they don't realize it.. good luck with your prob... try talking to her about it... write her a letter telling her how you feel!
2006-09-10 15:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sammi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't have enough information here to make an assessment about the feelings your mother has for you. Why don't you speak with her about it - calmly and rationally. Express to her how you perceive things & how it makes you feel. Good luck!
2006-09-10 15:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Dave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like my dad...except losing weight...
2006-09-10 15:42:52 · answer #9 · answered by jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋