my father (whynotaskdon) is an old pervert and used to abuse me when i was a kid.
now i grew up to be a bisexual man and i have a lot of anger towards this pervert old man and wanna confront him.
what should i do??
2006-09-10 15:25:03 · 22 answers · asked by whynotaskBinDon 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Yes, you should...
2006-09-10 15:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
My advice is probably stay away from your dad. Has he ever been physically abusive? Could he cause more damage if you confront him?
I think personally direct yourself towards improving your life. An idea might be to find a safe activity to exercise your anger toward your dad-basketball, yoga etc. Some go to psychologists for psychological healing.
I am a religious women and find a great healing from praying and reflecting on improving my life. Obviously, your father is unwell to do that to you and answer he gives you will be unreasonable.
Whatever you do, remember violence isn't the answer and you'll prove yourself to be a better man than your dad. Some people do bad things that have nothing to do with the victim because they are unwell and maybe he grew up in an undesirable family household.
2006-09-10 22:35:00 · answer #2 · answered by ccas2200 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yo is this really serious...dude I mean that are you even really related to whynotaskdon?
If your father did abuse you (whether or not it is whynotaskdon) then you should confront him about it rather than just bottle up your anger...though you will need to be careful because anything can happen at this point...
2006-09-11 00:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by betterdeadthansorry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, pick a team... bisexual is just another way of saying will-f***-anything.
Secondly, yes you should confront your old man - but don't do it without support. Talk to people you trust first and let them know what you are going to do, then when you talk to him do it in a safe environment.
2006-09-10 22:31:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is a very bad, bad man honey. Come on home and I'll fix you a cup of nice hot cocoa. We'll figure out how to confront him later.
2006-09-11 08:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Donna 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If it helps you in any way, then yes confront him! But if you're doing it just out of anger, it will only make you angrier!
2006-09-10 22:36:22 · answer #6 · answered by Dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it, what a stupid face he was. Adults who do that are crazy, especially if its to a male. Also that shouldnt make you bi, but if it helps you sleep at night than be it. Also there is an 18 year statue of limitation so maybe you should send him to jail, if he doesnt repent.
2006-09-10 22:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I hope you got some evidence to back up this case otherwise you could be looking at slander my old friend.
2006-09-10 22:48:30 · answer #8 · answered by wombatusium 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that icon made me laugh, simple but nice
reminded me of the beards i would draw on the real estate lady on the pads of paper she gave us.
2006-09-10 22:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find comfort in the beauty of some....like whynotaskdonna.
2006-09-10 22:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Miss. Bliss 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if confronting him would help you get closure on this whole issue then do it....dont spare him he doesnt deserve it.....you do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel better.
2006-09-10 22:28:19 · answer #11 · answered by askaway 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋