I split up with someone I loved about a month ago, and now there is someone else who wants to pursue me. My friend knows him and speaks well of him, but I think it is just too soon. But what if I miss out something good if I turn him away?
2006-09-10 15:20:34 · 23 answers · asked by Jacinda 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks, everyone. You have helped me see both sides of the coin.
2006-09-10 15:44:40 · update #1
There is no harm in going out with him and seeing what he is like. Enjoy yourself, I know how it hurts to split up with someone you love. But, love waits for no one. Just take things slow if your not completly healed. Don't rebound for instance to get rid of the pain, it will only make you feel worse. Just live babe and have fun and it will come to you. Wish you well and good luck!
2006-09-10 15:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by dabesgirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say you should first be friends with him and just tell him about you spilt and see what he does. If he is a guy who really wants you he will wait for you to tell him when the time is right. If your friend speaks highly of him take things slow first and who knows you might find something better than you had before and find out that he likes you for who you are.
2006-09-10 22:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by masterchiefcuda 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its never too soon to meet someone new just keep a clear mind and go into the relationship getting to know him first and see how that works good luck!
2006-09-10 22:23:43 · answer #3 · answered by ~*~ Stormy Weather~*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ity's not awlays best to get right back into a relationship, it's best to have to down time to yourself. If u get right back into a realationship it may be or seem like it's rebound and u don't want that.
So why don't u give yourself some time b 4 u jump back n 2 another relationship.
2006-09-10 22:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't start dating again until you feel ready to do so. You are worried about missing out, but if your whole heart isn't into the relationship it's not fair to you or the other person. Take your time.
2006-09-10 22:23:42 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will have to decide what you are comfortable doing. If you feel that it is too soon then it is too soon for you. Why not tell this prospective lover that you like him but you just got out of a relationship and don't feel you are ready. If he wants to wait for you he will... but not forever.
2006-09-10 22:23:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might miss out on something good. Not sure why you would be waiting to heal when healing goes so much quicker with a new relationship to focus on.
2006-09-10 22:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about missing out girl, if you just got out of a relationship and feel its too soon than it probably is and if the hurt is still tender than the slightest thing another person does will hurt too. don't rush.... only you can know when you are ready.
good luck.
2006-09-10 22:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your instincts. If you feel that you have a chance to rekindle with your ex then your will know. If not go out with the other guy. But don't do it on a rebound. I say go for it. Who knows he may be your soul mate!
2006-09-10 22:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel and let him know that you want to take it slow! That way you don't miss out on anything and it gives you the time you need.
2006-09-10 22:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by Petey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋