I have been cheating on my gf, I am not sure what to do... like is it a bad thing to not tell her if I do she might dump me, really what she doesn't know won't hurt her right???
2006-09-10 15:17:52 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not just stop and keep it to yourself.
2006-09-10 15:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wrong. if she finds out on her own, then she's going to wonder how long you kept this a secret... Hopefully, you're still not with the girl that you were cheating on your gf with. For the next few days give her lots of attention and tell her how much you love her, but don't over do it or she'll become too suspicious. After the few days, break the news to her gently in a way that won't hurt her too much and see what happens next.
2006-09-10 15:24:01 · answer #2 · answered by abcdefg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you are having sex with someone else then of course she has a right to know; Because you are putting her at risk. That's totally unfair and it's selfish. If you are not ready to settle down then you should have made that known before you got involved in a relationship, so now it's your job to let her know that you have been cheating on her. At least give her an option on whether she wants to deal with this or not, at least give her option on whether she wants to be a girlfriend of a cheater. Your not giving her a say so in this, at that's for the simple fact that she is unaware of all this. Spare her heart! Do you even love this women? Whether you do or don't, can you honestly tell me why you have her sticking around while you have sexual relations with another woman?
2006-09-10 15:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by StormyRain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cheated, now you must pay the price of being a cheater.
If she's smart she will dump you in the most painful way possible.
And the good news is, since someone else knows she will find out whether you tell her directly or not.
2006-09-10 15:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong. Because it might not be today and it might not be next week, but at some point she is going to find out.
People who cheat or there gf/bf/wife/husband for whatever reason think they can get away with it and some do. However more times than not, they are found out.
I hope your cheating was worth it because you will probably find yourself single real soon.
2006-09-10 15:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, but dont tell your girlfriend, even if she forgives you things will NEVER be the same again I swear, even 5 years from now every argument you have will fall back on you having cheated and make you miserable to the core.
Ask yourself why you are cheating on your girlfriend and be honest with yourself.
2006-09-10 15:35:24 · answer #6 · answered by stefjeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT SHE DOESN'T KNOW WON'T HURT HER??? HOW CAN YOU SAY THAT?!!! it was wrong to cheat in the first place and now you act like it is no big thing. you need to break up with both people and try to get a fresh start. but now if they both break up with you then no one else would ever date you because of what you did in the past so you should of thought about it before you went and decided to be stupid.
2006-09-10 15:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by katelynndabomb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg no affense but u need to be slaped! u should not cheat on ur gf how would u like it if she cheated on u and didint tell u? well i would tell her and if she breaks up w. u then the next gf u get dont cheat! well good luck w. that sorry if that sounded mean but yea ive been cheated on b4 and it hurts like h3!!
2006-09-10 15:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by thick_chikk_01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why r u cheating on her? it will hurt her if u tell her or if she finds out about this.
Maybe u should have just broke it off with her if ur gonna cheat,NO ONE likes to be cheated ON.
If and when u tell her she's gonna be hurt, so u have gotta urself in hell of a jam.
2006-09-10 15:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do that!! Not nice!! I don't know about telling her. Are you not going to do it anymore? If you really feel bad and will never do it again then I wouldn't tell her. If you are going to do it still, then break up with her. This will really hurt her if you drag her along, cause she will find out soon enough!
2006-09-10 15:20:27 · answer #10 · answered by lees girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your GF be honest with her...Why would you do that you should call it off dont cheat on her wait till you two are over..
2006-09-10 15:20:38 · answer #11 · answered by rapid57702 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋