So i was at a club and i was standing at the bar counter and i was about to order a drink and this unhot guy comes up to me and i started to laugh and i was like you gotta be kidding me and he was like so what are you gonna order and i was like hmmm how about a NEXT! And so i brushed him aside due to his unsexiness, was that rude lol should i have allowed him some time?
2006-09-10 15:11:24 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
VERY rude
2006-09-10 15:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, you know it was rude. The problem is that you obviously think it is funny.
Think about this. If you are hot like you intimate you are and he had the guts to come up to you with his un-hot self...he probably has some amazing confidence. Now you will want to ask yourself why. Why does he have such amazing confidence? Is he very intellegent? Does he have an amazing, interesting life? Maybe he was the most beautiful person you would have ever met on the inside. Or maybe he just isn't your type and completely undeserving of your dismissal, especially given his generosity.
Next time just smile and say what you are ordering, turn your back to him, make your order and then give him a nod as you move on.
See? Nice, but not friendly or leading. It can be done.
2006-09-11 03:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Rackjack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, the fact that you were at a club suggests that you are over 21. As such, you should have learned at this point in time that it never hurts to show respect for another. The guy didn't seem to be rude or too forward by your explanation, so the right thing to have done would be to be polite. And...remember....he may have had a real hunk for a brother at the other end of the bar. Never burn bridges sweetie...you never know when you might meet him again and may need a friend.
2006-09-10 15:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by handyman c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure it was rude. But then again, is that not why you go to the club in the first place? If you go to the club to get laid then the best thing to do is cut off contact with that person as quickly as possible if you have determined that there is no way that you are going to hook up with that guy. Its better to be rude than to be polite and falsely leading him on.
2006-09-10 15:14:56 · answer #4 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very rude! You could have said if you weren't inrested sorry I am not inrested who knows that guy could have had major bucks and a good personality but you didn't even try to find that out. could have been a Bill Gates
When I worked in Optics I met alot of filty rich people that dressed like every day people .
Just remember good looks fade but stupid stays forever like Judge Judy says You may have passed up a good one.
Diane
2006-09-10 15:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by dianehaggart 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are a typical shallow woman for sale, whether it be for his looks or his money. I'm sure it's normal behavior for you, but for real human beings, yes you're a horribly rude shrew. You are a perfect example of why most really sweet and wonderful women do NOT get approached in a place and have self doubts about themselves because men are afraid that the person they approach will have your personality. Unless you change your attitude, you do not deserve to be approached or have anything but lonliness and misery in your life.
2006-09-10 15:17:29 · answer #6 · answered by georgestrait66 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yep, very rude. You could have at least been polite. Talk for a minute, then say something like "Well, I've got to go find my friends" or something. You wouldn't want someone hurting your feelings.
2006-09-13 15:12:18 · answer #7 · answered by JustMyOpinion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have maybe been a little nicer, confident 20 year olds can handle the NEXT thing. Fat old people can be crushed by it. Most people can deal with it ok. Just be nice. Some day you might be the one hearing NEXT.
2006-09-10 15:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking at your other postings you've shown a tendency for rudeness. That person, like all the others, was lucky to get away from you. Didn't need your time. You are the remedy for global warming.
2006-09-10 15:49:23 · answer #9 · answered by quantumview 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You sound like a real Beeych. Of course that was rude, even if you weren't interested you don't treat people like that. How would you feel if somebody treated you like that. If you weren't interested you shouldn't have allowed him more time but you shouldn't have said next. Grow up.
2006-09-10 15:14:50 · answer #10 · answered by horrorfan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the guy is desperate enough to hit on a cheap bar fly, he deserves some sympathy
you sound really snotty for a bar slutt anyway
2006-09-11 20:20:28 · answer #11 · answered by watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋